Well, obviously it doesn't make the choice or child any less. Everyone jumped on the Chaz crazy train with that one.
But honestly - if you could knowingly change a serious medical condition in your future unborn child...would you? To improve certain aspects of their life quality? At what line is having a child not worth the conditions they will deal with? At what point is the quality of life you give them genetically just...too much?
Everyone loves life. Everyone loves their kids. Obviously. Every life is worth living. Obviously. But this isn't YOUR life we are talking about. This is a completely new life you are completely responsible for that YOU created.
Personally, I don't want the responsibility of knowing I brought a kid in the world that would deal with depression, anxiety, PCOS, infertility, heart disease, diabetes, anemia...and who knows what else. I'd still love it, of course. Still try my best to make everything as perfect as possible. Know that it's a beautiful life, no matter what. But the idea of it makes me incredibly sad. Because it would be directly my fault, because *I* chose to give birth, no matter what, and that kid had no choice in any of it. They just have to deal and make the best out of it because it's life and everyone is supposed to love life no matter what, right?
I wasn't on a eugenics train or trashing everyone that said they had kids with medical problems. I just didn't understand the mentality of it being a-ok and no one bothers to think about the quality of life they are going to provide their kids.
It's going to be a different answer for everyone, because it's an entirely PERSONAL decision. But some things about I just didn't understand. I didn't mean everyone with a serious medical condition shouldn't have kids. There's all sorts of variables. Especially with the sheer amount of medical knowledge we have today. Some things that used to be debilitating aren't that serious anymore.
Just like I don't understand continuing to bring in children when you can't feed the ones you have. There are all sorts of variables to that, too. And it's not like I'm going to be all, "Everyone should stop having kids NOW". I just wanted to know what each parent thought about the quality of life they gave their kids, genetically. The reasons they decided to have kids despite the odds and everything else.