I'm sorry Tucker&Me..I'm glad you guys talked it out and I hope this does not becoming a problem again!
I know how you felt...I was dating a guy for 4.5 years AND engaged until I found out he had a Major porn problem...He slipped one day and then I made him tell me the truth.
He said he looked at it all his life so it was a habit he couldn't stop..He even told me a TON of times how he wants to stop..and even at times he didn't even like doing it...It was just that he was "addicted" to it!
He wanted to stay together and stop looking at it..so we thought if he moved in with me...he wouldn't have all the "free" time he did at his moms place to look at it...Well it was true he stopped looking at it on the net...but then he moved to porn magazines!
We ended up breaking up because of it..He told me in the end that porn was always going to be in his life if I like it or not and no one can help him because to get help you need to WANT help..
I really give you credit for allowing him and understand his point..I know how hard that must of been!! ~hugs~
I know how you felt...I was dating a guy for 4.5 years AND engaged until I found out he had a Major porn problem...He slipped one day and then I made him tell me the truth.
He said he looked at it all his life so it was a habit he couldn't stop..He even told me a TON of times how he wants to stop..and even at times he didn't even like doing it...It was just that he was "addicted" to it!
He wanted to stay together and stop looking at it..so we thought if he moved in with me...he wouldn't have all the "free" time he did at his moms place to look at it...Well it was true he stopped looking at it on the net...but then he moved to porn magazines!
We ended up breaking up because of it..He told me in the end that porn was always going to be in his life if I like it or not and no one can help him because to get help you need to WANT help..
I really give you credit for allowing him and understand his point..I know how hard that must of been!! ~hugs~