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So the other day, I found porn on my boyfriend's phone.
I vaguely remember a thread about this a long time ago but couldn't find it so I decided to bring up the topic again.
If you found out that your BF/Hubby was watching porn (without your knowledge), how would you feel about it?
To be honest, I was really, really hurt. I didn't even know how to react 0.o He was obviously embarrassed I found out and kind of denied it at first before acknowledging it. Turns out he has looked at it regularly since before we were going out (it's been 2 years).
So yeah, I guess I am surprised by how much it has affected me. I suddenly feel much more self conscious, and embarrassed, not to mention just downright hurt. I haven't really wanted to kiss him or anything since, it just feels weird =/
I guess I am just wondering if my reaction is weird or if I am overreacting or...? Do you think it counts as cheating and would you be ok with it?
Thanks guys
I vaguely remember a thread about this a long time ago but couldn't find it so I decided to bring up the topic again.
If you found out that your BF/Hubby was watching porn (without your knowledge), how would you feel about it?
To be honest, I was really, really hurt. I didn't even know how to react 0.o He was obviously embarrassed I found out and kind of denied it at first before acknowledging it. Turns out he has looked at it regularly since before we were going out (it's been 2 years).
So yeah, I guess I am surprised by how much it has affected me. I suddenly feel much more self conscious, and embarrassed, not to mention just downright hurt. I haven't really wanted to kiss him or anything since, it just feels weird =/
I guess I am just wondering if my reaction is weird or if I am overreacting or...? Do you think it counts as cheating and would you be ok with it?
Thanks guys