I think talk about spanking being not good causes a lot of people to think, oh they say spanking isn't good so I'm not happy with my parents cuz they spanked me.
If everyone missed the lyrics of the song i posted earlier by Bucky Covington
"We got daddy's belt when we misbehaved.....We turned out alright"
Is like everyone over 40 scarred because they got spanked as kids? The people who have so much distress over it either A: think about it too much, or B: they were abused. And spanking is not abuse. There is a difference.
I don't think spanking is a punishment for everything, but when you have repeatedly told your child not to walk in the middle of the street, or to not touch the stove, it is better they get spanked, than ran over or burned. And again, spanking doesn't work on every child. And there is all sorts of creative punishment that isn't physical. But I think every parent should do whatever works best for their child. And I don't think anyone should ever go into parenting with the "it won't happen to me" attitude.
If everyone missed the lyrics of the song i posted earlier by Bucky Covington
"We got daddy's belt when we misbehaved.....We turned out alright"
Is like everyone over 40 scarred because they got spanked as kids? The people who have so much distress over it either A: think about it too much, or B: they were abused. And spanking is not abuse. There is a difference.
I don't think spanking is a punishment for everything, but when you have repeatedly told your child not to walk in the middle of the street, or to not touch the stove, it is better they get spanked, than ran over or burned. And again, spanking doesn't work on every child. And there is all sorts of creative punishment that isn't physical. But I think every parent should do whatever works best for their child. And I don't think anyone should ever go into parenting with the "it won't happen to me" attitude.