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I wouldn't do it.

I don't believe in revenge...and I agree with SillySally, there's enough trouble without asking for more
 
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"Hypotetically" (since this is a "hypothetical" situation ;) ), multiple fraud detectives have been contacted, and have confirmed that in such a situation, possession of the crad, and knowledge of all pertinent details relating to it, imply and prove authorization of use, and absolutely nothing criminal can be done about it. For that matter, one would "hypothetically" be within their rights to use it, and would risk only a very weak civil lawsuit with little to no chance of success - worst case scenario.
This is true. I work for a very large credit card company that I wont mention but I will suggest that you dont leave home without it.

Anyway- if he put you on his credit card, its in your name, you are not liable. Although if he stops paying the bill, they can go after you for YOUR purchases, so you could HYPOTHETICALLY be shooting yourself in the foot.

That would definitely be something to consider.

Cardholder still has responsibility with being liberal with their information and use of their card though no? I would think the only time the situation you describe would crop up would be in a case of theft wouldn't it? The scenario, "for the purposes of the thread" is certainly not a case of theft, and couldn't be proven as such.

Not being argumentative - just liking the different insight.
Thats why the second I threw the ex fiance out I cancelled him off all my CC's. He could use them, and I dont want to screw up my credit by not paying them, so I am already stuck with the 3K he put on it when we were together and refuses to pay.

Credit card companies rarely bother going after the person who used the cards. They simply withdraw the amount from the merchant's bank account. Pursuing a fraudulent user costs them money and they don't care WHO uses the card as long as it gets used.

It's across the board. I had a fraudulent user cornered with five different cards from three different major issuers -- even had the person very nearly pinpointed. The "investigations" department of each company told me the same thing: they didn't want to know, they'd already gotten their money back from the merchant.

I don't know how the Canadian equivalent of our FBI reacts, but when I contacted the FBI, I spoke with a helpful woman initially who was dismayed when, after contacting her supervisor, she was told that they weren't even allowed to take a report until there was a minimum loss of $25,000.

After that I did some digging and, sure enough, that is the standard procedure with credit card companies. So, when they advertise that they are protecting their card holders, they aren't. The merchant is. The price comes in increased costs of goods and services in order to offset shrink.
The bolded part is both true and not true. Yes we pull the money from the merchant account, but the merchant agrees to that in our contract with them, so essentially we are both protecting you. Also, the CC company I work for does reserve the right to prosecute to the fullest extent. And we do. They caught they guy that bought 3 laptops on my moms card and put him in jail.

That's exactly why merchants should be checking for ID for EVERY purchase. No matter how small. It takes 5 seconds to ask for ID, and could end up saving them TONS in the long run. This is also why most in person fraud is commited using small dollar amounts. larger purchases tend to be online, or at gas stations.

Its not fraud. Its the Actual cardmember using the card. Take some time to read your cardmember agreements, they state that you are responsible for all charges put forth by any members you authorize on your account. But liability wise, you could be held liable IF he lets the account go to collections. You better believe they'd start calling you to collect on those prada's!
 

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This is true. I work for a very large credit card company that I wont mention but I will suggest that you dont leave home without it.

Anyway- if he put you on his credit card, its in your name, you are not liable. Although if he stops paying the bill, they can go after you for YOUR purchases, so you could HYPOTHETICALLY be shooting yourself in the foot.


Thats why the second I threw the ex fiance out I cancelled him off all my CC's. He could use them, and I dont want to screw up my credit by not paying them, so I am already stuck with the 3K he put on it when we were together and refuses to pay.



The bolded part is both true and not true. Yes we pull the money from the merchant account, but the merchant agrees to that in our contract with them, so essentially we are both protecting you. Also, the CC company I work for does reserve the right to prosecute to the fullest extent. And we do. They caught they guy that bought 3 laptops on my moms card and put him in jail.

That's exactly why merchants should be checking for ID for EVERY purchase. No matter how small. It takes 5 seconds to ask for ID, and could end up saving them TONS in the long run. This is also why most in person fraud is commited using small dollar amounts. larger purchases tend to be online, or at gas stations.

Its not fraud. Its the Actual cardmember using the card. Take some time to read your cardmember agreements, they state that you are responsible for all charges put forth by any members you authorize on your account. But liability wise, you could be held liable IF he lets the account go to collections. You better believe they'd start calling you to collect on those prada's!
All very interesting and good to know.
 
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The bolded part is both true and not true. Yes we pull the money from the merchant account, but the merchant agrees to that in our contract with them, so essentially we are both protecting you.
It's a nice bit of extortion, though. Merchants HAVE to accept credit/debit cards now if they want to stay in business, and to do that, they HAVE to sign that they're essentially liable. The only way the CC company is protecting the card holder, in reality, is by holding a gun to the merchant's head.

You can only take ID if you're doing an in person transaction. If it's a phone transaction, you're screwed, and that confirmation number only means there are funds available. It doesn't mean, at least in the case of Visa and MC, that the CC company assumes ANY responsibility for the validity.

I'll NEVER again accept a CC transaction by telephone. Ever.

Amex does pursue SOME fraud, but they're so hard to deal with and charge the merchant two and three times - at least - the rates the other cards charge, so they aren't as readily accepted. We do take them at the furniture store, but only because Amex worked out a deal with the card processing company we go through to agree to the same rates as VISA and MC, and I still cringe every time (which is thankfully rarely) someone uses one. It takes three times as long for the money to be transferred to our account. Even longer than Discover.

Also, the CC company I work for does reserve the right to prosecute to the fullest extent. And we do. They caught they guy that bought 3 laptops on my moms card and put him in jail.
Question: was the merchant reimbursed for the amount that was withdrawn from the account, or was he still stuck with the bill?
 

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I wouldn't do it.

I'd think about it, and then decide against it.

Personally, I think it's asking for more trouble than it's worth.

I'm a wet blanket, though ;)
 
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It's a nice bit of extortion, though. Merchants HAVE to accept credit/debit cards now if they want to stay in business, and to do that, they HAVE to sign that they're essentially liable. The only way the CC company is protecting the card holder, in reality, is by holding a gun to the merchant's head.
Essentially, yeah. But it's the price of doing business. A lot of people wouldn't buy that $3,000.00 television if they didn't have a credit card to pay over time.

You can only take ID if you're doing an in person transaction. If it's a phone transaction, you're screwed, and that confirmation number only means there are funds available. It doesn't mean, at least in the case of Visa and MC, that the CC company assumes ANY responsibility for the validity.

I'll NEVER again accept a CC transaction by telephone. Ever.
And that's a smart idea. You never know who is calling in that order.

Amex does pursue SOME fraud, but they're so hard to deal with and charge the merchant two and three times - at least - the rates the other cards charge, so they aren't as readily accepted. We do take them at the furniture store, but only because Amex worked out a deal with the card processing company we go through to agree to the same rates as VISA and MC, and I still cringe every time (which is thankfully rarely) someone uses one. It takes three times as long for the money to be transferred to our account. Even longer than Discover.
From what I have heard, the most Amex will charge is 3%. I dont deal with merchants though. I heard Visa is up to 1.5%. I can tell you right now that I would def. spend more on my amex card with a $6,000.00 limit than I would on my Visa card though. Higher merchant fee, maybe, but that usually goes hand in hand with higher spending. And if you think about it, and break it down.. it's not terrible.

Say someone comes into your store and wants to buy something for $1,000.00. They use Visa, Visa gets 15 bucks. They use Amex, Amex gets 30 bucks. A lot of times though, the cardmember is more willing to spend more on Amex, so it's a difference of 30 bucks to get the $970.00 or nothing at all. Small price to pay. I do agree Amex doesn't make sense for small mom and pop stores though. No point there.



Question: was the merchant reimbursed for the amount that was withdrawn from the account, or was he still stuck with the bill?
That I do not know. BUT, in MOST fraud situations, the merchant could have been a little more careful to prevent it. This was back in 1999, where the guy verified the billing address (we had just moved and the ONLY person we had given my uncles house as our billing address was to the U-Haul company- that's how they caught the guy. It was an employee there.) But then had the laptops shipped to a COMPLETELY different address.

Nowadays- merchants won't ship to an address they can't verify with the CC company. We have the ability to add a temporary ship-to addres, where the cardmember has to call in, verify their password, or social, AND the 4 digit code thats on the card in order to change the address. makes it a lot harder to commit the kind of fraud this guy did.

Oh- also keep in mind- the fraudsters are getting smarter, they will have the item sent to the billing address, and then camp out on your street and wait for the package to arrive and steal it off your front step while you're at work.

Nice huh?
 
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From what I have heard, the most Amex will charge is 3%. I dont deal with merchants though. I heard Visa is up to 1.5%. I can tell you right now that I would def. spend more on my amex card with a $6,000.00 limit than I would on my Visa card though. Higher merchant fee, maybe, but that usually goes hand in hand with higher spending. And if you think about it, and break it down.. it's not terrible.

Say someone comes into your store and wants to buy something for $1,000.00. They use Visa, Visa gets 15 bucks. They use Amex, Amex gets 30 bucks. A lot of times though, the cardmember is more willing to spend more on Amex, so it's a difference of 30 bucks to get the $970.00 or nothing at all. Small price to pay. I do agree Amex doesn't make sense for small mom and pop stores though. No point there.
It works against the merchant, though, because typically, as a customer adds items, discounts are expected, so you take a hit on the front end in the form of a discount and then on the back end in from Amex.

Now, I ask people how they are going to be paying for something BEFORE I start calculating any "deals." If it's Amex? They don't get much, and they are usually more than happy to use another card.

I encourage the use of paper checks over their debit cards as well, since we KNOW where they live (we usually deliver) and it doesn't cost anything to deposit the check, and the funds are transferred more quickly.
 

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I still say lose the card. And the person signing the card can make up any version of the name on the card that they want. There's no way to say you intentionally gave it to this person since they will have no connection to you.
 
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Nope... I wouldnt.

Two wrongs never make a right... and stooping to his level will not help your case... and if you ever took him to court to recoup losses, the fact that you took part in "shady" practices as well would diminish your credibility.
 
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It works against the merchant, though, because typically, as a customer adds items, discounts are expected, so you take a hit on the front end in the form of a discount and then on the back end in from Amex.

Now, I ask people how they are going to be paying for something BEFORE I start calculating any "deals." If it's Amex? They don't get much, and they are usually more than happy to use another card.

I encourage the use of paper checks over their debit cards as well, since we KNOW where they live (we usually deliver) and it doesn't cost anything to deposit the check, and the funds are transferred more quickly.
Just be careful. There is a website designed against what we call card supression. In certain states you cant tell them not to use their amex if you accept it.
 

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I did not read the whole thread, just the OP. So here are my thoughts....


If you do what you propose, you are no better than than the person doing it to you. Period.


In other words... Grow up.
 
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Just be careful. There is a website designed against what we call card supression. In certain states you cant tell them not to use their amex if you accept it.
Oh, I don't tell them I won't accept it, I just tell them I can give them a better discount with something else. Which is true, and my choice. I don't up the charge if they use Amex, I just can't give them the same break on the price.

Rarely does anyone use an Amex anyway. Thankfully. And I'm seeing more and more going with cash, even on large purchases. They've figured out they're better off going to their credit unions.
 
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Oh, I don't tell them I won't accept it, I just tell them I can give them a better discount with something else. Which is true, and my choice. I don't up the charge if they use Amex, I just can't give them the same break on the price.

Rarely does anyone use an Amex anyway. Thankfully. And I'm seeing more and more going with cash, even on large purchases. They've figured out they're better off going to their credit unions.
Yup. You're safe then.

When cardmembers call into cancel their cards, a lot of times I'm envious. I have begun to rely on mine, which I'd rather not. But, these are the times I suppose.

Good chat:)
 

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I'd "lose" the card too...
Stooping to his level? Maybe...but then again you "lost" the card and since I'm guessing you two aren't on speaking terms you'd have no reason to contact him to say "hey that card you gave me is missing".

That's just me though. If it was my ex's card, I'd go find the scroungiest looking person I could find in the nastiest neighborhood, and drop the card accidentally right in front of them. Then again, my ex has cost me $10,000...
 

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I did not read the whole thread, just the OP. So here are my thoughts....


If you do what you propose, you are no better than than the person doing it to you. Period.


In other words... Grow up.
1. Situation is hypothetical, so I'm not "doing" anything to anyone.

2. I did state that the proposed course of action would be, for the sake of argument, completely lawful. Therefore not actually doing anything carrying the negative connotations you seem to bring to it.

In other words . . . Gear down big rig. No need to be rude. Everyone else seems to have contrtibuted some very interesting information and insights over the last 6 pages whilst being perfectly respectful.
 

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