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Fran27

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I don't think I would do it... unless it was for something that would not be traceable at all. And the problem with the TV thing is that they could see where it was shipped, plus with such a huge amount the credit card company might contact them. Same with paying debts...

I'd say, if you live in the same town, just small trips to the grocery store to buy some gift cards would do. They can't trace those, I think.
 

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I ditto Laby and Renee . Would be safer to take him to small claims court .
 

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#23
I wish I could say yes, a shopping spree would be awesome... but no matter how big of a hypothetical scumbag we're dealing with, I don't think I could or would do it.
Same here :(

My gut reaction would be REVENGE, I WANT IT...........but at the end of the day, my conscience wouldn't let me stoop to his level and I'd cut the card to be sure I wasn't tempted again, LOL

Good luck with whatever hypothetical decision you make though :rofl1:
 

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If you consult the attorney, use the credit card to pay his retainer.
 
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The other thought that I've had, is it may not be HIM that tries to recover the money, but the cc company. And they have pretty good lawyers, and really deep pockets to pay them with.....so I would really be certain of what one does before fooling with them.....
Credit card companies rarely bother going after the person who used the cards. They simply withdraw the amount from the merchant's bank account. Pursuing a fraudulent user costs them money and they don't care WHO uses the card as long as it gets used.

It's across the board. I had a fraudulent user cornered with five different cards from three different major issuers -- even had the person very nearly pinpointed. The "investigations" department of each company told me the same thing: they didn't want to know, they'd already gotten their money back from the merchant.

I don't know how the Canadian equivalent of our FBI reacts, but when I contacted the FBI, I spoke with a helpful woman initially who was dismayed when, after contacting her supervisor, she was told that they weren't even allowed to take a report until there was a minimum loss of $25,000.

After that I did some digging and, sure enough, that is the standard procedure with credit card companies. So, when they advertise that they are protecting their card holders, they aren't. The merchant is. The price comes in increased costs of goods and services in order to offset shrink.
 

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I'd never do it. There are plenty of legal avenues to get back at the guy with. I don't see the point in risking jail time and basically the entire rest of my life. There aren't too many jobs out there that will hire a thief.
 
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I agree with Renee. I wouldn't rely on a "fraud detective" (not sure what that is, honestly) telling you that you wouldn't be charged with theft.

If it's over the small claims minimum, which it might be, I guess it's a matter of deciding what your chances are for collecting what you're owed (in order to determine whether you want to engage a lawyer and sue for what you're owed).

But I'm really sorry that you're getting screwed.
 

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Not a chance. if I got out of the relationship without ruining the rest of my life I'm certainly not going to ruin my life once he's out of it just for a little revenge... in this case I think the revenge would end up being his.
 
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Since the original poster is here in the same province, I can state that small claims court here will allow a claim up to $10,000. That is the maximum of the principal claim, court costs (I'd have to check, I think it was $75 to file) and interest accrued from the date are in addition to that. One thing that is slightly different is that interest must be calculated per annum, not per month which is common.

If you want I can look up the links later on.
 

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I wouldn't, as tempting as it would really be. The possible ramifications are too great for the little bit of revenge it would bring you. Take him to court, hell take him on People's Court or something and get a little public humiliation in on him as well as the money. :D
 

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I wouldn't, as tempting as it would really be. The possible ramifications are too great for the little bit of revenge it would bring you. Take him to court, hell take him on People's Court or something and get a little public humiliation in on him as well as the money. :D
Or Judge Judy -- she'd be sure to let him have it!!

(Btw, I read that she made $45 million last year!)
 

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no way--I think it would be lowering yourself to his level--although dreaming about it would cost you nothing!
 

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Know what you should do? Just "lose" the card somewhere in a sketchy town and hope that the one honest person in town isn't the one who picks it up!
 

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