Trooper is staying the night at the vet tonight. ;(
The vet loved the progress he was making, but wants to sedate him and clip skin away and clean everything very thoroughly. I took some pictures today of his skin coming off that I will post when I get home. I'm gonna miss the little guy. Picking him up after work tomorrow.
My ex and I have been sharing Frag for over a year. I don't see a problem with that, and it's not on my terms. When Jon is not overseas or at training he wants him. When he is I told him I wanted him. It works out perfect for everyone involved. Why is that bad?
Sir was always my dog, even though I adopted him with Brian, but bonded better to Brian for sure. When we broke up Brian really wanted to see him still so I had him on the weekends and Brian had him during the week. But because of my work hours and Sir's anxiety in the crate, Brian asked if he could just have him. I obliged. Hardly murder. I miss the hell out of that dog, but he was miserable with me and Brian begged me for him. And he is so much happier. So if that makes me a terrible person then I am the worst.
Never rehomed a cat. It's funny how when nothing is said about an animal, people make up their own stories. Bean went with Jon when we broke up because I am allergic and didn't like her. He loved her and still has her.
You have to realize relationships happen and end. Someone has to keep the animals formed in those relationships. In my case, I kept the animals that were happy here and I had the right to take. I wish I could keep Frag forever, but Jon raised him and wants him, so who am I to say no?