arm yourself with the pericings technical name, that way you dont have to go Umm ahh, do you umm, peirce...you know...down there...
if you aproach it with a profesional tone, to a professional peircer, youll get an excelent responce.
with private peircings such as that though, go to a place you trust and take someone you trust to hold your hand...back up is nice...your not alone with your gyno...dont be alone with your privates peircer either lol. while if you knwo the peircer well it may not be as much of a problem for you...personally those are the type of peircings id want someone secondary there for a little extra security blanket.
when i get my nipples done, im taking one of my close female frineds with me, as much as i like this guy, id rather have a second set of eyes ofr something that intimate.
the bioflex is awesome, i dont know exactly how long its been out here but its aparently the jewelry of choice for europe and australias best peircers, im actually realy impressed with everything ive been reading on it, because it minimizes all irritation they say it can cut healing time in half...
AND you can get "pop on" heads for the bioflex, which means should it manage to get snagged good and propper a good tug will pop off the ball freeing you before it pulls hard enough to tear out...
and grab, if your having issues with allergies and want your peircings back, they make ear/nose/nipple, "private" ect out of the bioflex too. medical grade plastic, tis a wonderfull thing lol.