They learn to not care and figure they might as well have as much fun as they can while they can. I hear it over and over and over again from the teens that have moved through our circle of life. THey learn to stuff their ears with music, their minds with videos, their spare time with games, they learn to escape, to disassociate, to be angry. THere are exceptions of course, but i will almost bet 7-1 that the majority feel it is already a done deal. They learn they should get everything they want because we bend over backwards to make sure they get it (a mistake i am not making with the second generation ofchildren in my life), and that the easy way is the way to go. Our lifestyle as it is now mandates this line of thinking. WE set the examples. I think we are an amazing creative species, adaptable, capable of great humanity and just as capable of great harm. But most of all i am astounded at the ability do deny what is unpleasant. ANd i fear that will be our greatest undoing.