The thread debating whether lying for a reason is a sin made me think about things. I have VERY recently accepted God into my life but am having HUGE problems with allot of the Dogma involved.
My major argument is that whole story about sex before marrige being a sin. Marrige is a Pagan ritual that was adopted by the governers of I think Rome to control over population of the pesants (Pagans). Can someone please explain to me how, if I deeply love my boyfriend and am in a monogomous relationship with him, is having sex with him wrong?
He is a Christian, he has been saved and believes emphatically that Jesus died for our sins. I say that that is all good and well, and I beleive it too, but, I have a problem with the man made Dogma that places such heavy restrictions on Christians.
I agree that lying, stealing and murder etc are wrong. But allot of the things seem a little silly to me. So what, you have a couple of drinks, giggle a bit and wake up with a hangover. That is not a sin in my mind. That is just some fun. For me, as long as I don't hurt anyone I do not see that behaviour as wrong.
Same with sex before marrige. I am not hurting anyone by being intimate with a man I am in love with. I am faithful to him and would do what ever it takes to be there for him. So to me it is not a silly fling.
I really enjoy reading the religious "debates" on this forum as I think there are many intelligent people on this board and they have helped my develop my own faith and opinions through their discussions.
Please, can we keep this friendly!!! Thank you!
My major argument is that whole story about sex before marrige being a sin. Marrige is a Pagan ritual that was adopted by the governers of I think Rome to control over population of the pesants (Pagans). Can someone please explain to me how, if I deeply love my boyfriend and am in a monogomous relationship with him, is having sex with him wrong?
He is a Christian, he has been saved and believes emphatically that Jesus died for our sins. I say that that is all good and well, and I beleive it too, but, I have a problem with the man made Dogma that places such heavy restrictions on Christians.
I agree that lying, stealing and murder etc are wrong. But allot of the things seem a little silly to me. So what, you have a couple of drinks, giggle a bit and wake up with a hangover. That is not a sin in my mind. That is just some fun. For me, as long as I don't hurt anyone I do not see that behaviour as wrong.
Same with sex before marrige. I am not hurting anyone by being intimate with a man I am in love with. I am faithful to him and would do what ever it takes to be there for him. So to me it is not a silly fling.
I really enjoy reading the religious "debates" on this forum as I think there are many intelligent people on this board and they have helped my develop my own faith and opinions through their discussions.
Please, can we keep this friendly!!! Thank you!