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So, PM's thread in General Dog got me thinking as a couple replies to the question "where do you see yourself in 20 years?" generated replies from the youngins that started with marriage and kids. Obviously I don't have a problem with marriage p ) but why is it so important that it's number one on the list of to-dos for future grown ups?
When I was 14/15/16 the last thing on my mind was marraige. LOL. I mean, I had to surivive high school first! I had dreams of going to college and getting my BA and my MA and then I thought that maybe marriage and kids would come after that.
And it ended up that I got my BA, got married and then started working on my MA. But my goal of being someone before being known as Mrs. was successful. I don't let my marriage define me, but it is certainly a huge part of the person I am today and can't even fathom the thought of living without Mit, but I could (I think ).
Thoughts?
When I was 14/15/16 the last thing on my mind was marraige. LOL. I mean, I had to surivive high school first! I had dreams of going to college and getting my BA and my MA and then I thought that maybe marriage and kids would come after that.
And it ended up that I got my BA, got married and then started working on my MA. But my goal of being someone before being known as Mrs. was successful. I don't let my marriage define me, but it is certainly a huge part of the person I am today and can't even fathom the thought of living without Mit, but I could (I think ).
Thoughts?