my mum thinks that her failed relationships we both my and my brothers fathers (and my stepdad) will effect how we go later in life.
my sister wants to get married, she wants kids and all that.
but i think i'm a lot like my mum, she never wanted to have kids (nor do i - i relaly hate them) and her first marriage was in her backyard in a red dress with green palm tree pattern.
i think if i ever did get married, i'd like a plain silver ring and to sign the papers all done, i can think of better things to spend my money on then my wedding. lol but i do understand how people would like to make it a big deal. for a lot of people it is, but to me, marriage is just signing papers, i'd also like to keep my last name.
considering my brother decided to take his father last name and when my mum and dad divorced i decided to take her maiden name when she did. so, technically, if you followed all the rules of society, didn't give birht out of wedlock, get married etc, then my mums name, my grandparents name would be gone, plus i love my last name. its so unique
my dad had a huge winge last year when i finally asked him to sign the papers to get a birth certificate with my mums name, not his. he said all this stuff like "its the last part of you i have left" and "i feel empty inside, i lost you, and your sister and my marriage and its like my name was all thats left"
there was a big email about it. i ended up having it on my boirth certificate that my name is my mums name but it does state that at one time i did have his last name.
i was thinking about trying to talk my best friend into marrying me. lol when i turned 16 and relised i could get married with mums permission i thought it would be fun just for the sake of it.
I have never wanted to get married or have children. What I look foreward to in the future is a job that I want to get up every morning and do, and a home full of pets. Seriously, that is it.
that about sums it up, little hermit in the mountains with heaps of animals