Just a Question...

[chloesowner]

Do you think a girl and a boy can be friends without getting to romantically invovled?

 

[anna84]

I live with three guys and have a great deal of male friends. It is entirely possible. If theres an attraction but it can't happen or one of the two doesn't feel the same way then you don't act on it. For the most part I wouldn't trade my guy friends for anything even if there is the occaional "tension". Hell there are worst things then having a good friend thats fun to look at =)

 

[chloesowner]

Hhhhmmmm.... You have an abundance of Male Friends? Lucky. I have one who I e-mail regualrly. But thats it.

 

[GlassOnion]

Of course.

 

[puppyluv2004]

Absolutely!

 

[Debi]

I have alot of male friends. I usually prefer men...not cause I'm all flirty, but because they are more fun. not to pick on my gender, but some women are so petty (just go to lunch with some....there is a fight over the check that takes a half hour to muddle thru) and some women gossip too much. men don't give a crap what I'm wearing, or how my hair looks. they don't feel the need to discuss childbirth labor, recipes, or cleaning products.

 

[PB632]

Most of my mates are boys! I don't have a boyfriend and i dont sleep around, anybody who would think that really doesn't understand that having boy mates is great fun and a laugh female, because i'm more bloke than female i swear! I purp I fart i pick my nose and i dont care. lol . Hanging out with boys is better because you'll find that they arent as bitchy as girls and you can always go to them for advice wether they be gay or straight or totally mad all my mates are always willing to listen but I dont have any sexual relationships with any of them if I am dating a boy he is never from my group of friends because if things went wrong in that relationship it would screw loadsa relationships up and put people in awrkward postions.

 

[Fran27]

I think it depends personally of your definition of 'friend'. For a very close friend, I would say no, except if none of them are attracted by the other. I've always got along better with guys than girls also (except the not very feminine ones like me), I've had a few close male friends but it never worked out in the end because attraction came in the way. Even if you know nothing's going to happen because one of them is married or something, it doesn't prevent the attraction from being there. JMO.

 

[PixieSticksandTricks]

Yes I have alot of just males friends.

 

[tessa_s212]

Sure!

Though, it seems all the guys I am friends with end up having feelings for me. (Who knows why)

 

[jess2416]

I have alot of male friends. I usually prefer men...not cause I'm all flirty, but because they are more fun. not to pick on my gender, but some women are so petty (just go to lunch with some....there is a fight over the check that takes a half hour to muddle thru) and some women gossip too much. men don't give a crap what I'm wearing, or how my hair looks. they don't feel the need to discuss childbirth labor, recipes, or cleaning products.

I feel the same way...

 

[bubbatd]

I echo Debi and Jess ..........my next door neighbor was my best friend....and several others.

 

[jess2416]

I have always had male friends, and I work with a lot of guys, so I must say that there isn't a lot of petiness and being 2-faced which women (some women NOT all women) seem to enjoy and will pitch a fit when they dont get their way.

 

[chloesowner]

I've noticed its easier to have friendships with boys becuase the dont get as mad as easily as girls. Which makes it a whole lot easier.

 

[RD]

Sure you can. I've been very good friends with one guy in particular for about 3 years now. We talk about absolutely everything, and never once has our relationship been anything but friendship. (though it could be due to the fact that he's 6 years older than me, rofl)

A friend is a friend to me, gender doesn't really matter.

 

[chloesowner]

I honestly would like a few more relation ships with guys because there isnt so much fighting. Really, you should see the fights my "lady" classmates get into.

 

[oc_spirit]

Deffinately possible!!! I myself have more guy friends than girl friends partially because I''m flirty, partially because I''m a tom-boy. I don''t sleep around with any of them though. the guy to girl ratio on my MSN list is approx. 5 to 1. I''m just more compatible with guys than girls.

 

[Saje]

Yes, especially if they are gay. But that's not a requirement

 

[gaddylovesdogs]

Yes. I don't have any guy friends, there a few guys I know who I'll talk to occasionally, but all of my good friends are female. They're not selfish, spoiled brats.

 

[bubbatd]

You know it is true that you can be more of yourself around boys. I was a Tom Boy myself so prefered sports etc than girly things. Agree too that gay men can be a load of fun !