Just a Question...

[FoxyWench]

i agree with everyne else, of course you can be good frineds with a member of the opposite sex without it going anywhere further than simple frinedship...just like you can be frineds with someone whos attracted to the same sex...sex and sexual preference make absolutly NO difference in a frinedship unless you LET it...

I have many male frineds, infact i think im only close to 2 women, im not a tomboy in anyway, but im also in no way a girly girl, i just seem to click better with men.....just cause im friends with them, no matter what anyone would like to say, it doesnt mean im sleeping with them...

and i have to agree, a gay guy can be a womans BEST friend! my thing is i always fall for the guys who are gay, taken, or both....stupid "want things i cant have" responce lol.

 

[Zoom]

Very much so. One of my best and truest friends is a guy. We've been friends for almost 10 years.

 

[Juicy]

Most my best friends and majority of my friends are male, they're better to talk to and just chill with, girls ehh after elementary school can't really say the same about them, they become two-faced, backstabbers, ect not all but for me at least most.

 

[gaddylovesdogs]

I'm not a girly girl at all, but I still prefer hanging out with girl friends. My friends aren't girly girlish at all either though, so that helps.

Girly Girl: Girly girl is a slang term for a girl or woman who chooses to dress and behave in a traditionally feminine style, such as wearing pink or floral dresses, blouses and skirts, wearing make-up, talking about relationships and other activities which are associated with the traditional gender role of a girl. In addition to wearing feminine clothing and cosmetics, people may sometimes stereotype someone as a "girly girl" for decorating (whether it be their room or the clothing they wear) with a lot of pink. It is an informal term, and in most contexts, it is at least mildly derogatory.

I'm not like that at all. I'm basically the complete opposite!

 

[Ash47]

I think it's very possible. I prefer it that way too. Girls are just... vindictive. Most of the ones I have ever had any contact with anyway. And I am a girl also. Sometimes, I don't like myself. LOL

 

[chloesowner]

Well, I dont click with the guys at school, thats for sure. But thats only because they base my personality on my looks. (Grr!! )

 

[Gempress]

Definate yes. My best friend is a guy. And we've been friends for 14 years.

 

[DanL]

Well, I dont click with the guys at school, thats for sure. But thats only because they base my personality on my looks. (Grr!! )

Unfortunately, thats what often happens at your age. As you get older people will accept you for you and not what you look like. It's not just girls who have to deal with that, boys do too. You just stick to your guns and be the best person you can and eventually you'll be above and beyond those people.

 

[chloesowner]

Yup I guess so.

 

[bubbatd]

You know ... it really comes down to who you're comfortably with . Whether male or female, gay or whatever ....it may be your husband or a daughter or son ! Everyone has to have someone you're comfortable with ... could even be your dog !

 

[chloesowner]

Well I wouldnt mind if it was chloe. But I seem to get along better with My guy friend (Hayden) than I do any of my female "friends"

 

[Denaluvscorgis]

I think it's totally possible!

 

[juliefurry]

I do to a point. Me and my husband's friend have become great, almost best, friends since we were introduced.

 

[chloesowner]

Lets hope that you husband doesnt get jealous .

 

[chloesowner]

Well, I certianly have to say my friend Hayden and I get along better that He and his "friend" Rory and me and my friend Bailey!

 

[Dobiegurl]

I connect with guys more than girls, and because of that people call me a "hoe" but I just prefer guys over girls but that doesn't mean I mess around with them. People automatically assume, since you hang out with mostly boys, there has to be a reason (usually they think dirty reasons, so sad!!) and my reason is that they are more fun and don't hold grudges. My only problem with girls is PMS. Put a group of girls who are all PMSing together, and the outcome isn't good. Girls hold on to things to long and always seek revenge. Most of my guy friends are constatly fighting but the next day their best friends.

 

[smkie]

yes indeed i do. My son and his friend Angela have proven that one hundred percent.

 

[sharpei-girl]

I think that doesnt have to be a problem,I have a lot of male friends I hang out with...

 

[chloesowner]

Guys abd girls were made so different, it’s a wonder they can get along.

 

[tempura tantrum]

It's absolutely possible. My best friend is a guy who I've known since I was born (our mums were college roommates). If you ask either of us, sexual tension had never been an issue. In fact, the idea kind of grosses us out.

Many of my closest friends are guys (at least 5 of them), none of whom I've ever had a relationship with. There have been those awkward moments here and there, but in those cases, each party has realized that acting on those feelings is a bad idea in the long run.

And while many of my friends are guys, I wouldn't say I'm much of a tomboy either. I think the categorization of girls as either "girly" or "tomboy" is pretty stale at this point in the game anyway. I don't know any of my friends who can be so easily pigeon-holed, and I certainly can't. I love make up, getting my hair and nails done, short skirts and tall heels. At the same time, I'm a D1 college athlete, I love rugby (and I'm not adverse to getting dirty for it), and i have a penchant for dissecting things in bio labs.

My guy friends don't care if I'm wearing a dress or sweats to class (although they'll probably say something if I wear a dress, LOL), they're more concerned with the fact that I'm a good and honest friend, which is all that really matters anyway.