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I dont understand people who let it get that far.. and more than that, I dont understand someone like her who WANTS it to get worse.

there was a video interview this lady did where she said she didnt "believe" in all the health problems obesity SUPPOSEDLY cause..

makes me ill

EDIT: Let me rephrase, this excludes somebody with a medical condition/hormonal inbalance.

Im certainly not saying its their fault or judging, regardless of how they got that way. im saying I DO NOT UNDERSTAND IT. I just cant wrap my head around it
 
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It's not always because someone "lets" it get that far. My friend had severe hormonal imbalances, and the heavier she got, the worse they got. It became a horrific cycle -- probably with its beginnings in her childhood when her grandparents who raised her indulged her in all sorts of fattening foods, and, being elderly, weren't up to engaging her in much physical activity as a young child.

I shudder when I see all of these kids, toddlers, even, who are already obese. They're in for a tough time as they grow up, and people who have never had to battle weight don't understand. Even people who are kind and compassionate by nature don't, and, consciously or unconsciously, discriminate, often driving them to take comfort in food :(
 

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It's all very circumstantial and it's hard to know exactly how the weight got put on and why it's not coming off. It's different in every case and it is a struggle.
 
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Will it be time to panic when she appears on American Idol on December 21, 2012????? :eek:
Whoa ... maybe she's the catastrophic meteor predicted by Nostradamus?? :yikes:
(Or was that the Mayans, ... Hopis? All three?)
I am very close with a morbidly obese lady and this just sickens me. Watching her struggle to get out of her situation and someone wants to eat themselves farther into it?
A good friend of mine, at age 28, lost her battle with morbid obesity to complications from stomach stapling surgery :( SHE wanted to live.
^^^ These is what makes that woman in the article so sickening. She's completely cheapening the struggles and illnesses of others, and for what? Attention? Publicity?? :mad: No, it doesn't seem right at all ... and she is hurting her children in the process.
 

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Whoa ... maybe she's the catastrophic meteor predicted by Nostradamus?? :yikes:
(Or was that the Mayans, ... Hopis? All three?)



^^^ These is what makes that woman in the article so sickening. She's completely cheapening the struggles and illnesses of others, and for what? Attention? Publicity?? :mad: No, it doesn't seem right at all ... and she is hurting her children in the process.

Well, it has occured to me, that if you wish to be generous, she may be one of those people who has always had a serious weight problem. Perhaps she has chosen to embrace it as a way of dealing with the daily humiliation dealt out to the obese. <shrug> Not to defend her, and not that that is a productive solution, but if you want to try and se through her eyes, it may be more complicated than just attention.
 
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Perhaps she has chosen to embrace it as a way of dealing with the daily humiliation dealt out to the obese. <shrug> Not to defend her, and not that that is a productive solution, but if you want to try and se through her eyes, it may be more complicated than just attention.
If that were the case it would seem she would have mentioned that in interviews ... claiming that her mission is humanitarian, instead of wanting to set a new record. Also, I think there's a difference between "embracing" and "expressing desire to worsen".
 

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If that were the case it would seem she would have mentioned that in interviews ... claiming that her mission is humanitarian, instead of wanting to set a new record. Also, I think there's a difference between "embracing" and "expressing desire to worsen".
I don't mean in a philosophical sense . . . I don't think she is that high minded. I'm talking about psychology here . . .the perverse ways that people's minds work. I'm suggesting that perhaps she went "Ok, fine, so I'm fat. Really fat. Can't manage to take it off. So I'll be fat. There are people who will pay good money for that. In fact, I think I'll go for the world record of being fat. At least I'm good at being fat!"

That's not some deep "embracing" of fatness, its more of a defiant surrender to it. But its very human.

As I said, I have no idea what she is thinking, and clearly, she's not thinking too clearly. But its the sort of craziness that could lead to this.

On the other hand, maybe she just likes the attention and really, really likes to eat . . . and doesn't care about her kids. Maybe both. Who knows?
 

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Here are her reasons although apparently it was exaggerated about the 1000 lb goal... apparently that's just what she tells her fans


News | WJBF

Anti-Obesity Drive? Not For These Ladies: It’s a Living

Donna Simpson says she’s not aiming to become world’s fattest woman.
ABC News
Published: March 17, 2010


UNDATED—Donna Simpson’s livelihood depends on staying fat.

At 600 pounds, Simpson is a successful “model” on SupersizedBombshells.com, a Web site for men who like large women.

“I have fans who send me baklava and cheese cake and everything else you can imagine,“ says Simpson, a pale brunette with slicked-back hair. “I’m heavy and I wouldn’t mind being heavier.“

Simpson attracted intense scrutiny this week, after the UK newspaper Daily Mail ran a story about her alleged quest to gain another 400 pounds and become the fattest woman on earth. But Simpson, a stay-at-home mother of a three-year old girl, says the Mail twisted the truth.

“The whole thing about the 1,000 pounds is a fantasy I provide to my fans,“ she tells ABCNews.com, upset about the exaggerated coverage.

Simpson first fell under the spotlight three years ago when she became the world’s fattest woman to give birth at 530 pounds.

Her husband, Philippe Gouamba, told ABC News.com he stands behind her.

“I support her because I enjoy it,“ he says.

Like many men, Gouamba says he finds his wife’s weight sexy.

Though Simpson is not aiming for a world record, many BBW or Big Beautiful Women, as they are known, concede that the weight carries significant health risks.

The government says that obesity increases the likelihood of heart disease, diabetes, hypertension, and even some types of cancers, and First Lady Michelle Obama recently announced her battle against Americans’ childhood obesity is her top priority this year.

But Mikey Garcia, owner of Mikey’s BBW (Big Beautiful Women) Club in Waterford, Mich., points out that many thin women are also in poor health, because they are often dieting or smoking.

“Just because a woman is a bigger size doesn’t mean she’s not healthy,“ says Garcia.

Garcia, who weighs a buff 195 pounds says it took him years to admit his preferences, and didn’t “come out of the closet” until his 30s.

“A lot of guys are into bigger women, but in our society it’s not acceptable,“ says Garcia. “It’s the last socially accepted form of discrimination. It would have been much easier to tell my family I’m gay than to say I like bigger women.“

The women of Supersized Bombshells, many of whom were mocked in school, and are now shunned in public, relish the admiration.

Priscilla Bell, a 26-year-old who weighs 355 pounds, says modeling for men allows her to be herself—a self confident young mother. She says she receives hundreds of e-mails from her fans every day, and makes about $600 a month from her postings.

“There are men who look at me, and say I’m as beautiful as Tyra Banks or Heidi Klum,“ says Bell, whose best-selling video shows her cooking naked.

Bell says she likes to eat salads and protein bars and walks several miles a day to make sure she stays healthy.

“As long as I take care myself, I think it’s OK,“ she says, admitting that her doctor is never pleased when she tells him she wants to remain above 300 pounds. “They don’t like the weight gain, but I’ve always been overweight and I’m happy.“

Despite health concerns and supposed social stigma, Big Beautiful Model business is booming.

Men pay a $14.99 monthly subscription to see photos of Simpson wearing a Santa hat or posing in bed. For more cash, they can watch a video of Bell taking a bath or eating pizza. Fans often shower their favorite stars with gift-cards to Lane Bryant or restaurants.

Scores of start-ups around the country are cashing in on the attraction between men and women who weigh three or four times much as they should.

Stewart Hall, who started SupersizedBombshells.com three years ago, says he now gets 3,000 hits a day and makes almost 1,000 new sales a month.
 

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Here are her reasons although apparently it was exaggerated about the 1000 lb goal... apparently that's just what she tells her fans


News | WJBF

Anti-Obesity Drive? Not For These Ladies: It’s a Living

Donna Simpson says she’s not aiming to become world’s fattest woman.
ABC News
Published: March 17, 2010


UNDATED—Donna Simpson’s livelihood depends on staying fat.

At 600 pounds, Simpson is a successful “model†on SupersizedBombshells.com, a Web site for men who like large women.

“I have fans who send me baklava and cheese cake and everything else you can imagine,“ says Simpson, a pale brunette with slicked-back hair. “I’m heavy and I wouldn’t mind being heavier.“

Simpson attracted intense scrutiny this week, after the UK newspaper Daily Mail ran a story about her alleged quest to gain another 400 pounds and become the fattest woman on earth. But Simpson, a stay-at-home mother of a three-year old girl, says the Mail twisted the truth.

“The whole thing about the 1,000 pounds is a fantasy I provide to my fans,“ she tells ABCNews.com, upset about the exaggerated coverage.

Simpson first fell under the spotlight three years ago when she became the world’s fattest woman to give birth at 530 pounds.

Her husband, Philippe Gouamba, told ABC News.com he stands behind her.

“I support her because I enjoy it,“ he says.

Like many men, Gouamba says he finds his wife’s weight sexy.

Though Simpson is not aiming for a world record, many BBW or Big Beautiful Women, as they are known, concede that the weight carries significant health risks.

The government says that obesity increases the likelihood of heart disease, diabetes, hypertension, and even some types of cancers, and First Lady Michelle Obama recently announced her battle against Americans’ childhood obesity is her top priority this year.

But Mikey Garcia, owner of Mikey’s BBW (Big Beautiful Women) Club in Waterford, Mich., points out that many thin women are also in poor health, because they are often dieting or smoking.

“Just because a woman is a bigger size doesn’t mean she’s not healthy,“ says Garcia.

Garcia, who weighs a buff 195 pounds says it took him years to admit his preferences, and didn’t “come out of the closet†until his 30s.

“A lot of guys are into bigger women, but in our society it’s not acceptable,“ says Garcia. “It’s the last socially accepted form of discrimination. It would have been much easier to tell my family I’m gay than to say I like bigger women.“

The women of Supersized Bombshells, many of whom were mocked in school, and are now shunned in public, relish the admiration.

Priscilla Bell, a 26-year-old who weighs 355 pounds, says modeling for men allows her to be herself—a self confident young mother. She says she receives hundreds of e-mails from her fans every day, and makes about $600 a month from her postings.

“There are men who look at me, and say I’m as beautiful as Tyra Banks or Heidi Klum,“ says Bell, whose best-selling video shows her cooking naked.

Bell says she likes to eat salads and protein bars and walks several miles a day to make sure she stays healthy.

“As long as I take care myself, I think it’s OK,“ she says, admitting that her doctor is never pleased when she tells him she wants to remain above 300 pounds. “They don’t like the weight gain, but I’ve always been overweight and I’m happy.“

Despite health concerns and supposed social stigma, Big Beautiful Model business is booming.

Men pay a $14.99 monthly subscription to see photos of Simpson wearing a Santa hat or posing in bed. For more cash, they can watch a video of Bell taking a bath or eating pizza. Fans often shower their favorite stars with gift-cards to Lane Bryant or restaurants.

Scores of start-ups around the country are cashing in on the attraction between men and women who weigh three or four times much as they should.

Stewart Hall, who started SupersizedBombshells.com three years ago, says he now gets 3,000 hits a day and makes almost 1,000 new sales a month.
there are no words. where is the "im gonna barf" smilie?
 

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I think they should send her to a third-world country with starving children so they can eat her.

I'll bet her inactivity makes her flesh nice and tender, like veal.
 

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Hmmmm . . . . wonder if they have a "Biggest Douchcanoe" title?

I have a nominee . . . . . :rofl1:
Me? Oh Renee, you shouldn't have! :rofl1:

I didn't go look at the link. I'm disgusted and repulsed by anyone who would want to do that to themselves, and the children that will suffer because she's a dumb bitch.

Not to get all religious but she's committing at least 2 of the 7 deadly sins. She might as well blow her head off and get it over with, either way she's probably going to end up in the same place.
 

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I didn't read the link either. The whole idea of trying to gain weight when you're morbidly obese seems very dysfuntional to me. It screams of being unhealthy, mentally, emotionally, and of course physically.
 

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