I guess I'm the oddball out, but I'd wait to see the layout of the park and go from there because as long as an owner feels they have the situation under control, I 'm fine with whoever bringing their dog to a dog park. Most dogs and their owners have more to fear from me than from any of my three dogs anyways and if a dog is clearly exhibiting DA then I would be on the phone reporting it right away. I've done this with dogs and owners who simply appear to have no clue about dog manners as well.
Buddy could care less about other dogs in the dog park, he wants his squeaky ball to be thrown for him and he wants his space to do so. If another dog gets in his face or bothers him, he lets them know. My dog is not required to let some ill-mannered nincompoop take his ball and run away. He doesn't want to chase other dogs. He wants a huge, fenced-in space where he can run fast and free. He is NOT required to be buddies with the dogs. He is expected to have manners and I will always let him inform other dogs when he's had enough of their tactics. I know my dog and his body language well enough that I would know if things were about to go south for any reason and I've yelled and kicked at other dogs who have no manners whatsoever because Buddy will not stand being picked on either.
Banzai will sometimes run with another pack, but he is 99.9% always with Buddy. Unless we take them separately which rarely happens. He too, could care less what other dogs are doing. They just want to play their own game. thankfully, Banzai has grown a thicker skin because of Bella but all dogs have their threshold.
Bella only goes to the dog park and inside the dog park if there are no other dogs present. And if there are dogs in the big dog area, either Mit or I will take her to the small dog area and run around. If we see people approaching we kindly ask them to wait so that we can get her in a safe spot (usually out of the big dog park and out of the dogs approaching way) so that they can go in and then we leave or one of us takes her for a walk.
In my opinion, there is no option for someone to sneak up on us whether we have Bella or not. Someone is always watching the gate and aware of our surroundings, at ALL times. We know what dogs are approaching, we watch their body language. If the owners is yanking on their leash and cursing at them, we call the boys to us and put them in a down stay until we feel it is safe to let them roam. If there is a dog that seems to have no manners whatsoever, we either report it and/or let the owner know that their dog is being an ass.
I simply dislike this notion that if a dog is not perfect that they are not allowed anywhere. Silly.
ETA: Banzai HATES it when other dogs hump him. First, it's rude and second, go find a dog that CAN do the nasty with you, you little twit. One time at the dog park, one dog kept coming up to him and humping him. Banzai would turn around and snap and the owners of the offending dog kept saying, "ha ha, you're going to get your ass kicked dog". Its like they wanted Banzai to turn around and take a bite out of their dog. Finally I got so sick of it, I came to Banzai's offense, and I kicked the dog off of him and got out my chuck-it (a great thing to have for dogs that really have no manners and whose owners could care less) and stood between Banzai and the dog and threatened to call AC if they didn't get their **** dog out of there. I'd never seen two big ol' men scurry so fast. :rofl1: THOSE are the people that I am more worried about, the people that don't give a ****. I'm not worried about someone like Gem, not at all.