Cruel neighbor hurt Mocha!! I'm SO MAD!!

[stickner]

I'm sure she knows it was her responsibility, and yes she did do something wrong, but don't we all make mistakes? I'm just saying you don't have to jump on everyone because they did something wrong...and I'm not singleing you out, I'm talking about everone that is makeing a big deal about this! You think M&M really wanted to make this thread so people could start saying "oh you screwed up" and just plain being rude? I'm pretty sure she aware of that, and you rubbing it in isn't going to help!

I'm done argueing like a second grader now, go ahead and say what you will..there is no sence in it and will prove nothing exept that we are both stubbern and will not give in, so I'm leaving now before we start this whole argument about nothing.

Have fun agruing with yourself!

I am not arguing though. I have stated the facts, and have taken a calm and logical aprroach to the situation. I have then gone on to point out many inacurracies and hypocracies that have popped up throughout this thread.

When you run in the arena of illogical and throw in all the double standards, it is very hard indeed to debate anything. That is why several of my queries have yet to be answered. When someone is presented the facts of the situation as I have done in this thread, rather than try and attempt to continue what they KNOW is a losing battle - they resort to personal attacks and making statements that "they don't want to argue" any longer.

Typical.

 

[sparks19]

YAWN

Is this getting old for anyone else yet?

You're right, we are wrong. Happy? Can we move on now?

 

[stickner]

true, I do agree with some of the things he is saying, but the way he says them is rude...

Please provide examples as to what was rude. And simply having an opinion that differs from that of the lynch mob should not be construed as "rude".

 

[iheartsammy]

OMG! see, I was about to apolagize to you for calling you a jerk, and then you say that...

and about me being 'afraid' to loose the argument, I just have enough sence to know when to stop! I've seen fights on chaz and they will not stop untill someone deletes the thread or it is locked, I'm not going to waste my time with that...

M&M I hope Mocha is feeling better & Stickner, I am sorry for calling you a jerk...can we please stop with this madness now?!?!?!

 

[stickner]

YAWN

Is this getting old for anyone else yet?

You're right, we are wrong. Happy? Can we move on now?

That is precisely the approach that people take to deflect the realities of the situation.

 

[sparks19]

That is precisely the approach that people take to deflect the realities of the situation.

yes precisely. Ok are we done Yes? YAAAAAAAAAY

M&M? Has she been on today?

We would like to hear about poor Mocha. I am sure he is being pampered.

 

[stickner]

OMG! see, I was about to apolagize to you for calling you a jerk, and then you say that...

and about me being 'afraid' to loose the argument, I just have enough sence to know when to stop! I've seen fights on chaz and they will not stop untill someone deletes the thread or it is locked, I'm not going to waste my time with that...

M&M I hope Mocha is feeling better & Stickner, I am sorry for calling you a jerk...can we please stop with this madness now?!?!?!

Again another inacurracy. I never said you were "afraid" to lose the argument.

 

[iheartsammy]

ok, stop trying to fight with everyone...WHAT DO YOU WANT US TO SAY?!?! I said I was sorry and yet you still insist on fighting...

 

[stickner]

yes precisely. Ok are we done Yes? YAAAAAAAAAY

M&M? Has she been on today?

We would like to hear about poor Mocha. I am sure he is being pampered.

Your inbox is full for PM'ing.... Here is my response to your last PM:

I shouldn't have to stop reading a thread so you can have your little pissing contest.

I would like to read updates from the original poster without having to sift through the crap.

"well he said this and you didn't say anything to him about it" "well she did this" "he started it" GROW UP. I am not your mom and I don't care who started it or who said what. I just want to be able to read updates on the thread without the bitching and moaning.

From everyone, not just you.

It's getting old. Be the bigger person. Move on.

Nope. I will continue to challenge the inacurracies and double standards being exhibited by other posters.

Take the same stance that others have taken with me. PM the OP and kindly ask her to send you an update regarding the status of the pooch. That way you won't have to read the thread any more.

And there is no bitching and moaning from me. Why do people classify the pointing out of inaccurate statements and double standards as bitching and moaning??

 

[stickner]

ok, stop trying to fight with everyone...WHAT DO YOU WANT US TO SAY?!?! I said I was sorry and yet you still insist on fighting...

Apology accepted. Thank you.

 

[iheartsammy]

fansodfsd;glfgj

 

[iheartsammy]

lol...sorry...don't ask

 

[stickner]

We shouldn't have to PM the OP because this is her thread...not yours...

I guess I wasn't aware that one needs permission from the OP to post in their threads. Is that common practice on this forum?

 

[M&M's Mommy]

I'm happy to say that Mocha is doing better. He only showed sign of distress on the day when it first happened, but now it does not seem to bother him anymore. He's a very trusting boy even to strangers. He loves to be picked up and held, (and will lay down for a belly rub when he sees just about anyone who looks like they're interest in him which I now realize may not be a very good thing He is well trained, and would come when called. That's why I do not know why he didn't come at first, but only after I made the round around the neighborhood that I found him.

stickner, I've never intended to call on the police, nor made a big deal out of this. Upset as I was, I didn't come to the neighbor to ask them right away, but waited a day until everything cooled down, and sent my husband (who was actually trying to prove me wrong. He didn't think the neighbor did it at first, so he didn't come there "with the accusasory and confrontation attitude" as you thought) - while there, all he asked them was "My dog got hurt yesterday, and my wife saw him running from your house. Do you have any ideas what's happened?". He came back in less than 5 minutes, and I asked him what was going on, what did the neighbor say, and he told me that the neighbor was totally ignorance, saying they didn't know anything and didn't care either. My husband left before he would get upset so there was no confrontation.

Of course deep in my heart I knew when I first saw Mocha that had I been watching him every single minutes when he was out I could've prevented this from happening. I did say that I learned my lesson a hard way, and too sad Mocha had to pay for it. I did not start this thread to openly confess that I've messed up, nor to give anyone a cause to fight. I simply needed some reassurance and sympathy for my little boy who was obviously hurting.

I posted right after I got back from the vet, and he did told me that it looked like his nails were cut, not wear down or broken. That, plus the fact that this neighbor is not friendly with anyone in the neighborhood, and I found Mocha running from their front yard.. made me suspicious of him. I NEVER said I was sure of what happened, because I did not see it with my own eyes. I feel like I have been giving the neighbor all the benefit of the doubts he deserves.

I do not know what else do you want from me? And everyone please stop fighting. It made me feel guilty about starting this thread all together.

Once again, thanks for all the well wishes & constructive advices that I've received from you guys!

 

[Renee750il]

M&M . . . thanks for updating us. I'm going to close this thread on that note and remind everyone that the ignore feature is a lovely tool