child support or not?
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I don't think anyone said that Breeze. I really don't think they meant anything that way. Most people, in fact, agree with what you are doing. I know I do. Being a mother is a very personal thing and you need to decide what you have to do. If you feel that asking for support may endanger your little girl, then stay the hell away from him and his money.
I am sure you will be a wonderful mother to your little girl. Father around or not. You are the one who has been around for her for the past couple of months while he is off somewhere doing who knows what.
I am sure you will be a wonderful mother to your little girl. Father around or not. You are the one who has been around for her for the past couple of months while he is off somewhere doing who knows what.
That's pretty standard, Blue. Most states have worked towards having commonality with each other for child support enforcement reasons.
Once a man is on the birth certificate as the father, it's a major deal to remove him, even after being proven to NOT be the biological father. The Court is loathe to bastardize a child.
Once a man is on the birth certificate as the father, it's a major deal to remove him, even after being proven to NOT be the biological father. The Court is loathe to bastardize a child.
my daughter's fingernails were a quarter inch long and she had long scratches down her face when she was born. SHe was sectioned because she was just to big for me. I had such bad prenatal care with her! They induced my son because they said he was so cramped it was affecting his heart rate. SHe was bigger and had to go all that more time.
I believe Hy's dad is on the birth certificate, he escapes paying support and no one knows where he is. SO that is just one more piece of paper that means nothing in my life.
I believe Hy's dad is on the birth certificate, he escapes paying support and no one knows where he is. SO that is just one more piece of paper that means nothing in my life.
LOL YOu have lucky friends 
When my mom was pregnant with me... I was due at the end of May... I wasn't born until June 22nd lol... by that time I was 9lbs 14 oz.
After 36 weeks that's all the baby does until he or she is born... just put on weight... lol so the longer you go... the bigger your baby will be. Fun huh?
I got pregnant near the beginning of December and Hannah was born Sept 27th and the only reason she was born so "soon" (40 and 1/2 weeks) was because they induced me because my fluid was low.... she had NO plans of coming out on her own ANY time soon lol
When my mom was pregnant with me... I was due at the end of May... I wasn't born until June 22nd lol... by that time I was 9lbs 14 oz.
After 36 weeks that's all the baby does until he or she is born... just put on weight... lol so the longer you go... the bigger your baby will be. Fun huh?
I got pregnant near the beginning of December and Hannah was born Sept 27th and the only reason she was born so "soon" (40 and 1/2 weeks) was because they induced me because my fluid was low.... she had NO plans of coming out on her own ANY time soon lol
No you were just used as the example... since it started from another thread.... it wasn't ABOUT you. You decided that everything that was said was about you.
No one said you are a bad mother... not once. I guess some of us just don't understand why any "father" should be let off scott free just because he decides so. The other thread was about you... this is about ALL women(or men... primary caregivers) and child support.
No one said you are a bad mother... not once. I guess some of us just don't understand why any "father" should be let off scott free just because he decides so. The other thread was about you... this is about ALL women(or men... primary caregivers) and child support.
I believe the men should at least pay the child support if that is what the mother wants. If she doesn't want it then well.... she doesn't want it. I can see why a mother wouldn't want it. Just want to be her and her new family. If the man wanted nothing to do with the babe then she may just feel that cutting off all ties is better.