OK so.... both parents know they are expecting.... up until a few months before birth they seem to be on the same page....
After that the father has decided he really doesn't care.
Should he have to provide financially for the life he helped create?
Sure he should get a say in how she is raised... IF he wants it... but in a recent case it appears that he doesn't want anything to do with the child or how it is raised. I would be done with a man like that too..
they get the fun part... have your fun and then walk away? The mother doesn't have the same choice... they have an innocent being growing inside them... and unless any man has given birth they can't possibly understand why it would be difficult to choose adoption...
AND if you choose to be part of that world up until a couple months or less before the baby is born... you should be held accountable for your part in the ACTIONS....
Hey... if he wants to be in the kids life... all the better but in many cases they DON'T want to be in the kids life and think they can get off scott free (no pun intended with "get off")
Why should the mother shoulder all of the financial burden... everybody knows what COULD happen when you have sex... you don't want to deal with it... don't have sex or be responsible for the child in some way, shape or form. it's ridiculous.
Our cousin has a 4 month old... she is working... she has to pay daycare bills... she is living with her mother... she has to shoulder all financial responsiblity for this child... the father has made it perfectly clear he does NOT want any part in the childs life... he wants to live his own life... he should pay for what his seed helped to create. men should not be free and clear of their responsibilities... you can't keep it in your pants? than you can't keep it in your wallet either.
it's is very SAD it even has to be a debate
I really feel sorry for anyone in this position.
BUT the point is NOT the mother or the father... why should that CHILD suffer because two consenting adults cannot come to an agreement
After that the father has decided he really doesn't care.
Should he have to provide financially for the life he helped create?
Sure he should get a say in how she is raised... IF he wants it... but in a recent case it appears that he doesn't want anything to do with the child or how it is raised. I would be done with a man like that too..
they get the fun part... have your fun and then walk away? The mother doesn't have the same choice... they have an innocent being growing inside them... and unless any man has given birth they can't possibly understand why it would be difficult to choose adoption...
AND if you choose to be part of that world up until a couple months or less before the baby is born... you should be held accountable for your part in the ACTIONS....
Hey... if he wants to be in the kids life... all the better but in many cases they DON'T want to be in the kids life and think they can get off scott free (no pun intended with "get off")
Why should the mother shoulder all of the financial burden... everybody knows what COULD happen when you have sex... you don't want to deal with it... don't have sex or be responsible for the child in some way, shape or form. it's ridiculous.
Our cousin has a 4 month old... she is working... she has to pay daycare bills... she is living with her mother... she has to shoulder all financial responsiblity for this child... the father has made it perfectly clear he does NOT want any part in the childs life... he wants to live his own life... he should pay for what his seed helped to create. men should not be free and clear of their responsibilities... you can't keep it in your pants? than you can't keep it in your wallet either.
it's is very SAD it even has to be a debate
I really feel sorry for anyone in this position.
BUT the point is NOT the mother or the father... why should that CHILD suffer because two consenting adults cannot come to an agreement