The big thing for me is please, and thankyou. I have asked my children to say sir and ma'am to elders...but have never drilled them to say it to me.
But, they have used it to me.....when I have explained something about their behaviour and then asked them "do you understand?" then they have said "yes ma'am". I loved it... it sounded so respectful.
What is wrong with this scenero?
Boy: "Mom, I am thirsty can(should be may, my kids say can
) I have a drink?"
Mom: "Yes, would you like something to eat, too?"
Boy: "Yes, Ma'am"
Mom: "What would you like to eat?"
Boy: "A Peanut Butter & Jelly sandwich, Please".
Mom: "Sure"
And when mom makes the sandwich and hands it to the boy.........
another "thankyou" from him.