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I did not want to hijack the other thread.. so here are my two cents, some in response to Showpug,other rambling from my very expensive education that says early childhood education is VERY important. It's a rant of sorts, because many people have this discontorted view of child care, preschool, etc and it really bothers me. This is, by no means, aimed directly at Showpug.. I'm just taking what she said and going with it because I hear it all the time when I have to defend what I do and what I believe in, think of it as a rant of sorts.. I guess.
A large portion of this is due to location. Where we live there is no stay at home parenting. It's expensive to live here. No, it's not materialistic, it's making ends meet.
It's also darned expensive to put your child in a top end child development program. I am paying an incredible amount of money for my education right now. However, what I will be able to do for parents and their children after I have received my MA in Early Childhood Education is priceless in my heart.
So, what it boils down to is not every family is privililged enough to be able to have one stay at home parent while the other parent brings home the bacon. It's simply not likely. Is it materialistic? No, it's being able to provide for one's family.
You think that being around one's parents 24/7 is best for the child? A child does not need to be in daycare 5 days/week from 8 to five. At the place I am at, there are several options... two, three or five days a week. From 8:30a to noon, or 8:30 to 3:15 or 8:30 to 5:15. Most kids leave at noon. Two go home at 3:15 and one goes home at 5:15 (this is a class of 17 two and one half to four year olds).
8:30 to noon, three and one half hours, where the child is allowed to explore, play, prepare snack, go on nature walks, learn new concepts, socialize, learn about sharing, the list goes on and on. These children are surrounded by knowledgable people, constructivist teachers who scaffold these young children to help them be who they are. We give them voices, we give them a means to express themselves. We go by Piaget, Vygotsky, Rogoff, Erikson... thsoe that have done research on children and we form a curriculum to meet their needs, their wants.
Do you know what cognitive, social, fine motor and gross motor developmental level your two year old should be at? What does Piaget say about egocentrism, what does Erikson say about trust vs mistrust, autonomy vs shame, initiative vs guilt, industry vs inferiority,etc? Most parents can not answer these questions, so that is where those of us with the education and the knowledge step in.
What happened to BOTH parents parenting? BOTH parents are equally important... BOTH parents can work and still provide for their child. It happens eveyday. I see it everyday. I have proof that children being in daycare are very well cared for and are very much happy... I'll snap a picture of 17 individual faces to prove so.
Should a 6 week old infant belong in daycare? No, that's what maternity leave is for. What about a one year old.... year and a half, two years, three years... absolutely! Children need that experience! However, day care should NOT be abused. I do not believe in children being at our program from 8:30 to 5:15.. that doesn't seem right. But for three to five hours a day, a couple times a week... sounds like an excellent plan. Children can not learn everything from their parents. What happens in parents end up not knowing how to teach their child and when they reach elementary school they wonder why their child is struggling with the alphabet and counting.. it's because they never had those early childhood experiences and it's a shame.
Sorry, but I would say the majority of the time, parents "CHOOSE" to work and put their kids in daycare.
It's also darned expensive to put your child in a top end child development program. I am paying an incredible amount of money for my education right now. However, what I will be able to do for parents and their children after I have received my MA in Early Childhood Education is priceless in my heart.
So, what it boils down to is not every family is privililged enough to be able to have one stay at home parent while the other parent brings home the bacon. It's simply not likely. Is it materialistic? No, it's being able to provide for one's family.
When it comes to daycare, I am for what is in the best interest of the child. You can't honestly tell me that daycare is better for a child then the care of their own parents, can you?
8:30 to noon, three and one half hours, where the child is allowed to explore, play, prepare snack, go on nature walks, learn new concepts, socialize, learn about sharing, the list goes on and on. These children are surrounded by knowledgable people, constructivist teachers who scaffold these young children to help them be who they are. We give them voices, we give them a means to express themselves. We go by Piaget, Vygotsky, Rogoff, Erikson... thsoe that have done research on children and we form a curriculum to meet their needs, their wants.
Do you know what cognitive, social, fine motor and gross motor developmental level your two year old should be at? What does Piaget say about egocentrism, what does Erikson say about trust vs mistrust, autonomy vs shame, initiative vs guilt, industry vs inferiority,etc? Most parents can not answer these questions, so that is where those of us with the education and the knowledge step in.
If a woman wants a career so despertley that she spends more time being a career woman than being a mother than choose one. I have no problem with women being career driven. What I have a problem with is when their career is more important that the well being and happiness of their children.
Should a 6 week old infant belong in daycare? No, that's what maternity leave is for. What about a one year old.... year and a half, two years, three years... absolutely! Children need that experience! However, day care should NOT be abused. I do not believe in children being at our program from 8:30 to 5:15.. that doesn't seem right. But for three to five hours a day, a couple times a week... sounds like an excellent plan. Children can not learn everything from their parents. What happens in parents end up not knowing how to teach their child and when they reach elementary school they wonder why their child is struggling with the alphabet and counting.. it's because they never had those early childhood experiences and it's a shame.