Oh I don't know... I think the mods defending you was nice. But since you asked... Welcome to the forum! I'd like to know more about your dog(s).
I don't think this forum has ever been one where people hide their feelings in an effort to be nice. I think we're a pretty tight knit group here, which may be part of the reason that we're not afraid to say what we mean. I know a lot of forums out there seem to be all about fake smiles and pats on the back, because everyone is so darn *scared* of saying what they want to say, or feel the forum will fall apart if they don't go with the flock and mimic the "ones in charge".
I suppose from my end, this is the only forum I'm on that I can be myself, say what I mean, and not be worried about being tarred and feathered for it. So yes, waking up Christmas morning to a cheery post mentioning changes to my favorite website (one that I have put a lot of time and effort into, helping people, making friends, etc.) got me a little spooked.
Giny is right - in time, there's a great family feel. But it takes time. Like the dog breed at the top of this forum (Chaz, the Doberman), I don't think we rush in and fawn... like with a Doberman, you must earn that respect. But once you've got it, you've got it! But... to echo it again... it takes time.