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Wow, I come here to get help and then I get attacked. Thanks, I appreciate it. Maybe I shouldnt have brought this up at all and just did nothing to help my mother and her dog. If I didnt care, then I obviously wouldn't have asked for help and suggestions.
Then I get attacked for not being able to support my own child. Where did this come from? That is MY business. This is about someone elses dog that needs help, not my child. My pregnancy was NOT planned, in fact, I was on birth control. So don't judge my personal life. Dont make assumptions like some of you gladly have. I do NOT get ANY money from the state... like its your business anyhow. You dont know ANYTHING about my life, so again... why judge me about not having money? Maybe I should kill my baby by abortion, would that be a better choice? I dont think so! I dont support murder. I can and I will support my own child. Brandon has bought EVERYTHING our baby needs. He has money saved to fix a vehicle that he relies on to get to and from work. Its getting fixed tomorrow, because its getting worse and almost didnt start this morning.
I moved from arizona to washington and had to leave everything. We had no furniture, barely any money, we slept on the floors of our rental house with no electricity for a month until Brandon found a job. I am not gonna go through my whole life story on here, but this is what has happened. Brandon had to leave a good paying job to move on short notice to washington. I am a full time student trying to better my life. Just because I have no money doesnt mean I am some kind of lazy person who doesnt care about anything. I went to the unemployment office when I moved here, and what did they tell me? "Dont bother trying to get a job, because no employer is going to hire a pregnant woman". I live in a town that hardly has ANY job openings for various reasons. People were impressed that brandon found a job after only a month. Usually it takes several months or longer. As for my mother, she is on disability because she physically cant work, and I am not going to get into an argument about getting money from the state. Its my mothers business NOT mine.
Then I get attacked for not being able to support my own child. Where did this come from? That is MY business. This is about someone elses dog that needs help, not my child. My pregnancy was NOT planned, in fact, I was on birth control. So don't judge my personal life. Dont make assumptions like some of you gladly have. I do NOT get ANY money from the state... like its your business anyhow. You dont know ANYTHING about my life, so again... why judge me about not having money? Maybe I should kill my baby by abortion, would that be a better choice? I dont think so! I dont support murder. I can and I will support my own child. Brandon has bought EVERYTHING our baby needs. He has money saved to fix a vehicle that he relies on to get to and from work. Its getting fixed tomorrow, because its getting worse and almost didnt start this morning.
I moved from arizona to washington and had to leave everything. We had no furniture, barely any money, we slept on the floors of our rental house with no electricity for a month until Brandon found a job. I am not gonna go through my whole life story on here, but this is what has happened. Brandon had to leave a good paying job to move on short notice to washington. I am a full time student trying to better my life. Just because I have no money doesnt mean I am some kind of lazy person who doesnt care about anything. I went to the unemployment office when I moved here, and what did they tell me? "Dont bother trying to get a job, because no employer is going to hire a pregnant woman". I live in a town that hardly has ANY job openings for various reasons. People were impressed that brandon found a job after only a month. Usually it takes several months or longer. As for my mother, she is on disability because she physically cant work, and I am not going to get into an argument about getting money from the state. Its my mothers business NOT mine.
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I knew people would start making accusations and finally come out to call me a liar. Thats nice. Here I am telling the honest to god truth and then I am called a liar? Where is your proof that I am living off my mother? Or is that just something you came up with in your little head of yours just because you want me to look as bad as possible? My mother does NOT take care of anyone but her and my little sister, period. Brandon and I take care of ourselves and our baby. My mom will attest that he pays the rent and bills directly down the middle. 50/50!! We SHARE a place because we all had to move 2,000 miles away on short notice. I moved out of my parents house at the age of 17 and took care of myself while still in highschool. I moved back in with my mother right before my father passed away. You are even going as far to say that my mother will raise my child. Woah, thats a load of you know what. Shame on you for even thinking that. Thanks for all your help and accusations. You added so much to this thread.
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Yes I have even though some members seem to want to think that I have done nothing and then go on the attack.
I told my mom about the credit check to see if she can get help. She didnt get approved.
I told her about checking advances and she didn't get approved by the websites she tried.
She called vets to see if she can get something worked out, but they refuse because of her credit. And believe me its worse than you can ever imagine (her credit)! I am quite angry at how cruel vets can be at this point.
I pleaded with brandon to give my mother the money he has saved up for the car. He refused. He is getting the car fixed tomorrow. Its getting worse.
One thing that I am going to try is see if the vets will work something out with me, because even though I dont have any credit, I dont have really bad credit like my mother.
As you can see, I HAVE been trying things. I am taking everyones suggestions seriously. Thanks to everyone who has given great advice. I appreciate it more than you know.
I told my mom about the credit check to see if she can get help. She didnt get approved.
I told her about checking advances and she didn't get approved by the websites she tried.
She called vets to see if she can get something worked out, but they refuse because of her credit. And believe me its worse than you can ever imagine (her credit)! I am quite angry at how cruel vets can be at this point.
I pleaded with brandon to give my mother the money he has saved up for the car. He refused. He is getting the car fixed tomorrow. Its getting worse.
One thing that I am going to try is see if the vets will work something out with me, because even though I dont have any credit, I dont have really bad credit like my mother.
As you can see, I HAVE been trying things. I am taking everyones suggestions seriously. Thanks to everyone who has given great advice. I appreciate it more than you know.
Reggin, I apologize for the comment I made about sucking money out of taxpayers. It was uncalled for and I am sorry.
That said, this dog has suffered long enough. Please either convince your mom to call a rescue or shelter and surrender the dog, or if she won't do that, call animal control yourself. Please do something TODAY.
That said, this dog has suffered long enough. Please either convince your mom to call a rescue or shelter and surrender the dog, or if she won't do that, call animal control yourself. Please do something TODAY.