I personally am at a loss as what to say about any of this, I am just as confused and trying to find answers as the rest of you. I am definitely not saying it's ok. I am glad this thread was merged/left open for discussion as it should be.
People here (and other places) DO treat long standing members a little different, no doubt about that. You spend *time* with them, you get to know their past and present, you feel like you *know* them a little as well. If something like this were going down with drmom, Jessie, baxter, any of you, I would want to hear your side of it with proof if necessary.
Look how many times I defended squishy/reggin when the crowd was rounding on her.........turns out she was yanking my chain, but I don't regret defending her. I did what I thought was right at the time and I would probably do it again with any of you until I was shown differently.
That is all I have to say about this at the moment. I hope Foxy can come back and give us a reason to believe what she is saying, I truly do, until then I am going to reserve judgment as much as humanly possible.