I too talk with my "kids" --now 18, and 21 yo young men--about being safe, responsible, etc. I don't know the details of their escapades...although I imagine there have been some! I was usually the one to bring up the topic--usually in humor, but to open the door for questions or discussions. I hope it has made them responsible guys.
As for me, I met my future husband when I was 18--he is my one and only. I waited awhile, and was very glad that I did. I have a hard time with the thought of having sex without an emotional and trusting commitment from the other person. That is not a judgement on anyone--it is just me.
As for me, I met my future husband when I was 18--he is my one and only. I waited awhile, and was very glad that I did. I have a hard time with the thought of having sex without an emotional and trusting commitment from the other person. That is not a judgement on anyone--it is just me.