All my life I've always dreamed on getting abused by a husband or a boyfriend of some sort, or the person I'm currently with even if the person is not one that is harmful in any way. Or sometimes I dream about getting raped, hit, used, or killed, just something bad beinging done to me by the opposite sex. Sometimes I even dream of my child getting molested by a stepfather of some sort or her own father. And the weirdest part of all sometimes I think about these things myself! I can't control it, its just what pops into my head. Sometimes I even get turned on by this way of thinking, and that part I really never did understand why would I actually enjoy these thoughts.
I was never really ''molested''. Atleast I never felt like I really did to a degree where it did emotionally scarring or I might just be in denial. There was one time when I was younger some older man tried & actually a couple times did feel on me at home depot, but I removed myself after I finally noticed his intentions. But even now I sometimes feel like I like beinging a victim or don't feel powerful enough to stop it, even though I know I could just say no or remove the person away from me. Like even recently for instant last year on the bus, so boy I never talked to just started to feel on me, and I just sat there, just letting him do this to me. I don't know why at the moment I did not do anything about it, although I did feel very uncomftable. Also another situation this time at grad night (senior trip to disney, partying and whatnot) there where actually two guys who actually did get into my pants which I was sandwich between them and started fingering me, I removed myself, but thinking back I think I could of removed them from an early start, but I don't know why I didn't. Is there anything that can explain why I just let guys molest me, even if I do not want the intentions? And these events were never done in a forceful kind of way, so I never did see why I just can't get myself to actually stopping it from happening.
I was never really ''molested''. Atleast I never felt like I really did to a degree where it did emotionally scarring or I might just be in denial. There was one time when I was younger some older man tried & actually a couple times did feel on me at home depot, but I removed myself after I finally noticed his intentions. But even now I sometimes feel like I like beinging a victim or don't feel powerful enough to stop it, even though I know I could just say no or remove the person away from me. Like even recently for instant last year on the bus, so boy I never talked to just started to feel on me, and I just sat there, just letting him do this to me. I don't know why at the moment I did not do anything about it, although I did feel very uncomftable. Also another situation this time at grad night (senior trip to disney, partying and whatnot) there where actually two guys who actually did get into my pants which I was sandwich between them and started fingering me, I removed myself, but thinking back I think I could of removed them from an early start, but I don't know why I didn't. Is there anything that can explain why I just let guys molest me, even if I do not want the intentions? And these events were never done in a forceful kind of way, so I never did see why I just can't get myself to actually stopping it from happening.