Was there ever any other option?

[Buddy'sParents]

When people hear of Buddy and his "ordeals" it's often that we hear, "It's amazing you still have him" or "It's awesome that you are doing all of this for him" or just yesterday, "you are doing a great thing taking on a dog like Buddy."

While these comments are appreciated and hold value to my heart... I ask myself .... was there ever any other option? And the answer? NO.

Dogs are NOT disposable. You don't get a dog and then find out he's sick and then take him back or get rid of him. He is a living being.

From the moment I signed that contrat, he was MINE. And that meant, from that point on, that he was MY dog, MY responsibility!

For better, for worse, my name is on that contract, he is my dog and that means that every time he has demodex mites, every time he gets an infection, every time he injures himself, every time he gets sick, I lay down my checkbook on the counter because it is my duty! He is MY dog.

He became a part of my very being the moment he jumped into my arms. You don't just dump family.. or let family get sick and do nothing about it. You fight for family.

Family is not NOT disposable. Therefore, neither is my dog!


/vent, rant, whatever you want to call it

 

[Kase]

Agree 100%. You do anything and everything for the beings that you live simply because you love them so.

 

[iamawesum69420]

I feel the same way. I don't care what happens to either of my babies, I couldn't get rid of them. To me, they're not just some toy, they're part of my family, they're like my kids.

 

[J's crew]

:hail: :hail:

 

[Bobsk8]

When people hear of Buddy and his "ordeals" it's often that we hear, "It's amazing you still have him" or "It's awesome that you are doing all of this for him" or just yesterday, "you are doing a great thing taking on a dog like Buddy."

While these comments are appreciated and hold value to my heart... I ask myself .... was there ever any other option? And the answer? NO.

Dogs are NOT disposable. You don't get a dog and then find out he's sick and then take him back or get rid of him. He is a living being.

From the moment I signed that contrat, he was MINE. And that meant, from that point on, that he was MY dog, MY responsibility!

For better, for worse, my name is on that contract, he is my dog and that means that every time he has demodex mites, every time he gets an infection, every time he injures himself, every time he gets sick, I lay down my checkbook on the counter because it is my duty! He is MY dog.

He became a part of my very being the moment he jumped into my arms. You don't just dump family.. or let family get sick and do nothing about it. You fight for family.

Family is not NOT disposable. Therefore, neither is my dog!


/vent, rant, whatever you want to call it

That's called "having a sense of responsibility", which unfortunately is lacking in many people....

 

[Kenzie]

When people hear of Buddy and his "ordeals" it's often that we hear, "It's amazing you still have him" or "It's awesome that you are doing all of this for him" or just yesterday, "you are doing a great thing taking on a dog like Buddy."

While these comments are appreciated and hold value to my heart... I ask myself .... was there ever any other option? And the answer? NO.

Dogs are NOT disposable. You don't get a dog and then find out he's sick and then take him back or get rid of him. He is a living being.

From the moment I signed that contrat, he was MINE. And that meant, from that point on, that he was MY dog, MY responsibility!

For better, for worse, my name is on that contract, he is my dog and that means that every time he has demodex mites, every time he gets an infection, every time he injures himself, every time he gets sick, I lay down my checkbook on the counter because it is my duty! He is MY dog.

He became a part of my very being the moment he jumped into my arms. You don't just dump family.. or let family get sick and do nothing about it. You fight for family.

Family is not NOT disposable. Therefore, neither is my dog!


/vent, rant, whatever you want to call it

I only wish everyone felt the same way hun, some just don't realize that their four legged family is a living, FEELING being. One that will remain loyal thoughout his/her life, never asking anything in return for their unconditional love. No matter what is done to them, they love you til the end, and the same cannot be said of the human species. I'll never understand how some can look at them as disposable, and easily replace that family member, ignore it's pain or feelings, and not even give it a second thought as to what happens to him/her, and they do it over and over. I wish the two legged species cared as much as the four legged ones. Thanks Goodness, there are some that care and take responsibility for the innocent, defenceless ones. Thank you for that :hail:

 

[Lizmo]

I totally agree Nicole :hail: Very Well said too

 

[casablanca1]

I would have agreed with you once. But now I think that some family is disposable, sadly, because the alternative is to take on an unending emotional cost that's just too high. As far as canine family goes, I believe that's also the case sometimes.

 

[darkchild16]

you can always send him to me if he gets to much him and walker would be great together lol.

back on topic now.
I know how you feel there are so many times while hes eating his food and im stuck with a gross sandwhich i have to tell myself hes family lol. I dont think i could ever give him up. No matter what i wake up to that snoring monster and jsut feel complete happiness and completeness. Hes ehre to stay even if i have to live on the streets with him. lol.

 

[Buddy'sParents]

That's called "having a sense of responsibility", which unfortunately is lacking in many people....

But it really isn't all that hard, Bob. I just don't get why others see it as anything but.

I only wish everyone felt the same way hun, some just don't realize that their four legged family is a living, FEELING being. One that will remain loyal thoughout his/her life, never asking anything in return for their unconditional love. No matter what is done to them, they love you til the end, and the same cannot be said of the human species. I'll never understand how some can look at them as disposable, and easily replace that family member, ignore it's pain or feelings, and not even give it a second thought as to what happens to him/her, and they do it over and over. I wish the two legged species cared as much as the four legged ones. Thanks Goodness, there are some that care and take responsibility for the innocent, defenceless ones. Thank you for that :hail:

I had a restless night last night and I went down to the couch... my Buddy followed me and lay his 90# body on top of mine.. with his head on my heart. I will do anything and everything in my power to keep that boy, happy and healthy. I will move heaven and earth.

 

[Buddy'sParents]

I would have agreed with you once. But now I think that some family is disposable, sadly, because the alternative is to take on an unending emotional cost that's just too high. As far as canine family goes, I believe that's also the case sometimes.

It is an unending emotional cost.. I haven't really stopped crying since last night. Buddy's sick again and it's just as stressful and heartbreaking as the time before.

But, he is still mine and my responsiblity. I can not and will not give up on him because he drew the short stick of life.

He deserves a fighting chance and I wil provide that for him. At any cost.

 

[Julie]

I am sorry Buddy is sick again. What is wrong?
I hope he gets back on track soon.

 

[Buddy'sParents]

Thanks, Julie.

He has mites and we've been doing a holistic treatment, but now he has an infection, which puts a damper on the whole treatment.

 

[Kenzie]

I'm so very sorry to hear that BP. And I'm sure he feels your stress over him as well. He was sent to you for a reason, you're there for each other. I wish there was something I could do to help

Be strong, you will all get through this, you all have each other, and our email address at your fingertips [[[[HUGS]]]

 

[Buddy'sParents]

Thank you, Kenzie.

 

[rij73]

I'm so sorry to hear about the infection. Remember I've been through it all with Hudson. Don't hesitate to ask me questions!

I've heard the same thing about me being such a good person to keep Hudson even though he was so sick. It does sound kind of silly to hear people say that. The day I met that dog, I knew we were meant to be! I would do anything to make him healthy and happy. Four months later, and whenever he gets really happy and playful, I get a little teary just thinking about his rough start in life and how he could have wound up with someone who wouldn't love him like I do.

When Hudson skin broke out in an infection, we gave him the antibiotic Simplicef and started the more intensive Ivermectin dosage. I think you should really consider the Ivermectin. Hudson was sick for many many months, and after about 6 weeks on the daily Ivermectin he was mite-free.

 

[Buddy'sParents]

Rachel- I am currently researching the ivermectin- any links or anything really about it, I would really appreciate!

 

[showpug]

Have you used Ivermec before? If not, it can be VERY effective. It's not approved for use on demodex in dogs, but many vets use it now days as it is usually very effective and clears them up quickly. I have seen dogs go from completley hairless and infected to clear within a month or two. Sure, it is a drug and more serious than a holistic treatment, but for some dogs it is the answer and the cure.

As far as your original post, I agree 100%. My dogs have always been family to us as well. Many times people and family members have called us crazy, but there was no other option. We love our dogs! Buddy is lucky to have such a special family. Many, many dog owners would have thrown in the towel by now.

Good luck with him and I wish you both the best...

 

[rij73]

Here are some webpages that I read back then...

http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body_demodectic_mange.html
http://www.marvistavet.com/html/body_ivermectin.html
http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm?cls=2&cat=1589&articleid=729

Remember that if Buddy has any Collie in him, it's probably not safe. You might have the vet try Milbemycin instead. I just know that what worked for us was Ivermectin with baths and nutritional supplements. Pyoben benzoyl peroxide shampoo was wonderful, FYI.

GOOD LUCK and hang in there... Have you tried the herb Echinacea to boost his immune system? Could be a good idea too.

 

[Buddy'sParents]

We're on the same page, I have those exact sites up on my browser right now! lol...

He's on a huge life of vitamins/supplements, PM me if you want the details...

I'm not really sure if our vet will go for the Ivermectin... but I'm printing out of all this stuff and I think I'm going to go to her with it..

Showpug- thank you for your kind words. We did the mitaban dips before and I felt they were too harsh... I have heard good things about the ivermectin and I am willing to try it for Buddy's sake.