John and I had a good hear to hear talk. He cried, I cried, ect...
He has made the decision to change. He will never like the cats but he will never hurt them either.
Im not sure what I beleive of all of this. He wanted me to give him a month to change I told him 2 weeks. I wanted to give him back his ring so he can ask me again in a while when he is ready. He said to keep it as a promise ring for all his promises. He will buy me a new ring.
So I wasnt buying it enitely BUT he agreed to go to a couples councler/shrink I went to once and really liked. We are going at the end of 2 weeks. I havnt decided if I am leaveing or not. He has to prove to me how much he wants me to stay. 2 weeks end of story. I am NOT budging this time.
We've been together so long, but if it's not working Im gone.
He has made the decision to change. He will never like the cats but he will never hurt them either.
Im not sure what I beleive of all of this. He wanted me to give him a month to change I told him 2 weeks. I wanted to give him back his ring so he can ask me again in a while when he is ready. He said to keep it as a promise ring for all his promises. He will buy me a new ring.
So I wasnt buying it enitely BUT he agreed to go to a couples councler/shrink I went to once and really liked. We are going at the end of 2 weeks. I havnt decided if I am leaveing or not. He has to prove to me how much he wants me to stay. 2 weeks end of story. I am NOT budging this time.
We've been together so long, but if it's not working Im gone.