I understand that. However, it is this incident, combined with her overall carelessness, combined with the fact that he will be primarily in HER care next year when I am gone, that makes me concerned. I sat down and had a talk with her and I think she will be more responsible in the future now.
I am angry with her, but never said I directed that anger towards her. Although I will say that I'm 110% sure that she's not beating herself up over the incident. At this very moment she's baking and singing in the kitchen... she's the last person to let something like guilt eat away at her.
Michiyo-Fir - I've been very impressed with just how well he is doing. Emotionally it was as if the incident never happened. Today when we were outside (for the very brief walk on the grass) cars continued to drive past and got absolutely no reaction from him. He actually tried to hop in the car with the rest of the family when they left to go shopping. Loud noises, sudden motions, etc., none of that phases him. I'm proud of this pup.