The Venting Thread

Beanie

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The phones are down here at work so it's more boring than usual.
I really don't see how this job needs more than one person to do it. I share my job duties with somebody and honestly one person could do it all and still have time for more. Or maybe I'm just incredibly efficient, which considering how many people they were dividing up my job tasks to at the radio station when I left, perhaps that's true. The discussion went something like "How many people does it take to do Beanie's job?" "Apparently, at least four." And that was for just ONE task... so yeah. Maybe I'm just too efficient for this.

B-o-r-i-n-g.
 

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If you're so in a hurry to get where you're going, maybe you should leave earlier. Don't honk at me because it takes me a few seconds to push the clutch in, put the car in gear, let the clutch back out, and get the car going. I don't ever plan on launching from every green light, nor am I going to sit there with my car in gear because it wears the clutch. Tailgating me with your high beams on was a nice touch, but I have four-piston Brembos on a car that weighs 2,700 pounds. You are going to slam into the back of me when I get tired of your bright lights in my rearview and hit the brakes. Hopefully braking really late at the next red light so that you almost rear-ended me was enough for you to take a hint.
 

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Well Monday I wanted to do the lawn but of course my push mower desides to quit. So on Tuesday I had to spend a lovely day at Home Depot dealing with the equipment service guys & the coustomer service ppl & going back & forth btw them :/.

My glasses are breaking & I can't get an appointment til next Monday I hope I can baby them til I can get new ones :(

On top of that poor buddy got bit by a freaking rattlesnake & spent the day at the vet (including the one-way hr trip of takes to get there just to have them give him a shot of steriods & send me back with antibodics to the time of $150 :S) f***ing snakes ... I killed that sumbitch tho >:/
 

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Just had a discussion about my house that became an argument and finally culminated in me literally screaming "it's my ****ing house" at my mom. Whee.

I should have just bought the stupid condo two years ago.
 

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Just had a discussion about my house that became an argument and finally culminated in me literally screaming "it's my ****ing house" at my mom. Whee.

I should have just bought the stupid condo two years ago.
I have said that to my mom a few times, not going to lie.

I would just tell everyone to F off, do things how YOU want to, and if they don't like it, tough **** they will get over it.
I cannot stand people telling me what to do with MY stuff, no matter what it is. I have a tendency to say F it a lot when things go downhill and are out of my control when *I* am trying to do stuff.

I feel your pain. I am living with my boyfriend and my mom and I were on the phone when Michael and I were arguing (she called in the middle of our argument and I have NO reason WHY I answered, it was weird lol), anyways, Michael said something and she said "You shouldn't let him talk to you like that and treat you like trash" I was like excuse me??? Michael didn't say anything for her to even say that. Needless to say, I was no longer arguing with Michael but with my mom for saying that. I know it sounds stupid to get mad about something like that but my mom is well... if you don't know by now go look through previous threads about her.
But I guess cause my mom and I bump heads a lot and always had, I get more mad at her over small stuff than anyone else.

Anyways, sorry to hijack lol Beanie's post got me going lol
 

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I wrote off my mother earlier this year. Completely blocked from all aspects of my life. And it will continue to stay that way. Best thing I ever did for myself, to be honest. There are bad relationships with your parents, and then there are mentally abusive relationships with your parents where you feel like you "owe" something to them to put up with crap they put you through. It's not healthy. In my case, it wasn't healthy. So I said she could F off and I've been so much happier since.

My vent for the day is just this frggin headache. And it snowed more today. And it's cold. And I have a headache. And it's just one of those days. Bleh.
 

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I wrote off my mother earlier this year. Completely blocked from all aspects of my life. And it will continue to stay that way. Best thing I ever did for myself, to be honest. There are bad relationships with your parents, and then there are mentally abusive relationships with your parents where you feel like you "owe" something to them to put up with crap they put you through. It's not healthy. In my case, it wasn't healthy. So I said she could F off and I've been so much happier since.

My vent for the day is just this frggin headache. And it snowed more today. And it's cold. And I have a headache. And it's just one of those days. Bleh.
I have been told for YEARS to write my mother off. For some reason, I can't do it. Its like I want that mother-daughter relationship so bad but I KNOW it won't happen but still...
I have tried since I was 15/16 years old to get my mom to go to counseling but she won't. In her words "I have no reason to go." Well... um... I am your daughter and I *thought* maybe that would be a good enough reason but nope.
I have a strong feeling that when I have my first kid, that she might be wrote off. I know that is the worse to let go of your mom but she has never really been a mom and I don't want her to treat my kids like she did me, hell no won't happen captain.
I should of cut her off when I thought I was pregnant when I was with my ex and she said something along the lines of she would take my kid when it was born and she would raise it. We stopped talking for a long time after that was said but we talk now.
She is very narcissistic, all about her, and just ugh.

Also, my vent for the day: Boyfriend is helping a friend catch up on school work because he was in a motorcycle accident and needs help, so Michael offered but Lord this stuff is making Michael angry and very irritated, which in turn is making me on edge. Poor baby.
 

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OK I know I bitch about Jeremys work alot but its MOSTLY this man. Jeremys co worker told him today that their boss came to HIM and told him he has concerns about OUR finances :O and that he has told our landlord that. He just put in for a transfer and is calling HR in the morning. This is RIDICULOUS. HR better do something about it before *I* do something about it.
 

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I have been told for YEARS to write my mother off. For some reason, I can't do it. Its like I want that mother-daughter relationship so bad but I KNOW it won't happen but still...
I have tried since I was 15/16 years old to get my mom to go to counseling but she won't. In her words "I have no reason to go." Well... um... I am your daughter and I *thought* maybe that would be a good enough reason but nope.
I have a strong feeling that when I have my first kid, that she might be wrote off. I know that is the worse to let go of your mom but she has never really been a mom and I don't want her to treat my kids like she did me, hell no won't happen captain.
I should of cut her off when I thought I was pregnant when I was with my ex and she said something along the lines of she would take my kid when it was born and she would raise it. We stopped talking for a long time after that was said but we talk now.
She is very narcissistic, all about her, and just ugh.

Also, my vent for the day: Boyfriend is helping a friend catch up on school work because he was in a motorcycle accident and needs help, so Michael offered but Lord this stuff is making Michael angry and very irritated, which in turn is making me on edge. Poor baby.

Good man for doing it though!
 

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My fiancée & I are living seperate due to job requirements on his side & the fact that where he lives dogs aren't allowed & I can't leave them at the family ranch with my folks because they have their own probs & already have 2 dogs of their own & that would make 4 dogs to care for which is not fair to them.

Tho I think he's having more of the "coping" missing issues as on his side because I can sleep alone lol, I've always had a bit of an unrepentant streak.
 

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My first client dog this morning scratched me across the face and now I look abused for my next client appointment and I don't know where I put my concealer. :p
 

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I love sleeping without my husband LMAO. More room for me, no snoring.. it's great. I don't like being in an empty house though (well, I still have the kids obviously, but you know what I mean).
 

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Ok getting really frustrated with Chris. He's 4.5. Been pooping his underwear since we got rid of diapers last June. 1 to 3 times a day. So sick of it. We started to see a counselor 2 weeks ago. Last week I thought he got it, he had no accident until today. Now he just pooped his underwear again (when I asked him why he said he was reading a magazine), then proceeded to pee all over the bathroom floor while standing there crying because I asked him to clean his mess up.

I'm getting really discouraged.
 

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Never buy overstuffed couches EVER unless you are staying somewhere permanently. We just had to get ours through the door at the old house and it was like trying to give birth to a baby LMAO. I told Jeremy its leaving this house by way of chainsaw.
 

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I have spent a total of 3-4 hours sitting in a freezing car today. And Jin asks me why I'm so "mellow".

....GEE. WHAT A GREAT MYSTERY.
 

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Hannah has this annoying new habit where she CHEWS on the wrist cuff of her long sleeved shirts and dresses. Drives me nuts. first of all they get FILTHY and second of all, when I have to hold her hand I am grabbing onto a soaking wet sleeve lol
 

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