I to got my tatoo for a reason.....my mom had just died and while she was in the process of dying from lung cancer/brain tumor, the room she was staying in had a really colorful dragonfly cling sticker on the window...she would look at it all of the time and comment on how pretty it was. About a month after my mom died, my husband and I took all of our kids to the beach for several days. My daughter and I decided to get a dragonfly tatoo in memory of my mom and her grandma. We have the exact same tatoo....mine is on my ankle hers in on her lower back. Everytime I look at my tatoo it reminds me of my mom and just feels really good. So...that is why I made that statement that my tatoo isn't tacky. I'm very sorry if I offended anyone or seemed arguementative. That wasn't my intention at all.