Where do you shop for bras? I went to lane Bryant and got measured but I need a 38 DDD or maybe even one cup size up and the store only really had 40 DDD. And barely any of those. It was all 42+. Even when I was skinnier (where id like to be) I was a 36 DDD and that's even harder to find. It seems like they assume big cup size = big rib cage. I bought some 40 DDDs and they fit okay on the tightest notch but they start getting loose during the day. One say I would just LOVE a bra that fits and is cute. Ummm short of getting a boob job is there any other options? Do you just buy online? I hesitate with that since bra shopping is so hit or miss to begin with.