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Anyone else really really bad at spoken word?
It seems I can write here plenty. I can type out my thoughts quickly without any problem at all..but ask me to express my thought in the spoken word, and I can't. I can't express thoughts or emotions easily at all. Yet, right here I'm expressing thoughts and my emotions just fine, and I can do the same on paper.
For example, today Dustin and I(or more like just Dustin) had a conversation while at the library. He spoke about some things he learned using references to the bible, and though I didn't outright disagree, I had a different outlook. Yet, it was extremely hard for the words to come to my mouth or make them make sense. I'm usually never pushy with my thoughts, but I think part of me still worries I'll make the other person angry, especially someone close to me. Going back to my fear of displeasing others, I think. A built in need to try and make others love me?
Am I alone? Is there any way to help this? I really want to get to the root of the problem and learn to actually verbally communicate how I feel and think to others.
It seems I can write here plenty. I can type out my thoughts quickly without any problem at all..but ask me to express my thought in the spoken word, and I can't. I can't express thoughts or emotions easily at all. Yet, right here I'm expressing thoughts and my emotions just fine, and I can do the same on paper.
For example, today Dustin and I(or more like just Dustin) had a conversation while at the library. He spoke about some things he learned using references to the bible, and though I didn't outright disagree, I had a different outlook. Yet, it was extremely hard for the words to come to my mouth or make them make sense. I'm usually never pushy with my thoughts, but I think part of me still worries I'll make the other person angry, especially someone close to me. Going back to my fear of displeasing others, I think. A built in need to try and make others love me?
Am I alone? Is there any way to help this? I really want to get to the root of the problem and learn to actually verbally communicate how I feel and think to others.