This evening has been a stressful one. I found out that my best friend just miscarried her 3rd baby, and this time at 15 weeks. She has severe endometriosis, has had laproscopic sx to removed excess scar tissue, and was taking progesterone from day 1 to help keep this pregnancy. Today the ER OB/GYN told her that he's not honestly sure that she will ever be able to sustain a viable pregnancy.
Now, this is one of my 2 best friends. We've been friends for 25 years (since we were 5). It absolutely kills me to watch her going through this and I'm thinking that she's going to give up. I know they have maxed out a few credit cards doing all the testing, medical treatments, surgery, etc.
So I was talking to my husband and I made the comment that I wish I could carry the baby for her. He looked at me like I was nuts, especially since I have absolutely horrible pregnancies (severe vomiting sometimes resulting in hospital stays & gestational diabetes). So we really got to talking and I mean serious discussion. After 3 hours of discussing numerous issues, outcomes, problems, etc., I fully decided that I would most definitely be a surrogate mom if she & her husband wanted a biological child. In fact, I would sign up to do it as soon as Carson hit a year of age. I would do it even if it meant me not having a 3rd baby of my own(I have PCOS and my uterus is funky...but that's a whole other story).
This got me to thinking, how many other women would honestly do this for a sister or close friend? Or just any woman in general? Do you really think that when it came down to it, you would follow through with it?
Now, this is one of my 2 best friends. We've been friends for 25 years (since we were 5). It absolutely kills me to watch her going through this and I'm thinking that she's going to give up. I know they have maxed out a few credit cards doing all the testing, medical treatments, surgery, etc.
So I was talking to my husband and I made the comment that I wish I could carry the baby for her. He looked at me like I was nuts, especially since I have absolutely horrible pregnancies (severe vomiting sometimes resulting in hospital stays & gestational diabetes). So we really got to talking and I mean serious discussion. After 3 hours of discussing numerous issues, outcomes, problems, etc., I fully decided that I would most definitely be a surrogate mom if she & her husband wanted a biological child. In fact, I would sign up to do it as soon as Carson hit a year of age. I would do it even if it meant me not having a 3rd baby of my own(I have PCOS and my uterus is funky...but that's a whole other story).
This got me to thinking, how many other women would honestly do this for a sister or close friend? Or just any woman in general? Do you really think that when it came down to it, you would follow through with it?