Absolutely. After I've had one of my own, of course.
Adoption is SO expensive. I get the feeling people think it's so much easier when they say "they should just adopt".
I was looking at international adoptions of children with special needs just this last week... anywhere from $15,000 to 30,000 (a couple countries were a bit more). There are health requirements, status requirements, some countries allow single moms (none allow single dads) and some allow same-sex couples to adopt, some require adopted children be in a christian home ONLY. And this requires anywhere from one week to one month of travel time.
Domestic adoptions.. horribly expensive. Anywhere from $20,000 to $65,000 for a child depending on the agency and of course then you have all of the agency requirements, parent requirements, etc. etc..
So, yeah, I'd like to say they should just adopt! Because there ARE many many children who needs home who are already born, but it is not our decision to tell them to go adopt when we don't have any clue what the whole process is like. And, if you don't know what it's like to
want to have a child of your own then surely you wouldn't understand a desperate couple who long for nothing more than to hold their own child. Just my .02