not to be selfish, but...

[chloesowner]

Chloesowner...how old are you?
I'm sorry that people are so cruel to you. Personally that's why I like dogs better than people. First of all, I know it's hard when you are young but you have to learn to like yourself. If you know that you are a good person, then that's all that matters. Some people are just assholes and whatever problem they have with themselves, they take it out on others. If you have low self esteem, people pick up on that like and just like animals going after the sick and wounded, they attack. Hold your head up and be proud of who you are! If they say something nasty to you, kill them with kindness in return. I know it's hard but think of yourself as an actress and put on an act. On days when it really gets to you, keep that act up but if you want to go home and have a good cry, there is nothing wrong with that. Trust me when I say that the world gets better once you're out of high school. It's only a temporary thing....just tell yourself that...and do things that make YOU happy.
It's easy to make friends on the internet but it's kind of like a pretend thing, if you think about it. Nobody really KNOWS anybody...just what they're told. Go make some real friends who share your interests....get out and do things. You will feel a lot better!

Jessie

well, here you guys all like me. but thats because you dont have the sh**heads telling you things about me that sre not true to get you to dislike me. i have to be careful on the web because there are even more s***head men pretending to girls on the net. but here i feel safe because no one here is going to hunt me down. i luv it here!

 

[chloesowner]

they are all just jealos because i have good friends on here and that they dont even know how to get here

 

[chloesowner]

not to be cocky

 

[chloesowner]

i luv it here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[chloesowner]

untill now. i was in the threads "Circumsision" and "Abortion" an have been called imature. and no one apparently likes to hear my opinion.

 

[devinecanine]

It's one of those heated topics...don't take it personally. That's why I haven't bothered to read it or give my opinion.

Jessie

 

[Sirius]

Oh man, was I ever teased! Tessa was my best friend. Now. don't worry. If it gets serious, talk to someone... like your doctor.

 

[beagle_lovergirl]

Everyone goes through it. Turn your back and walk away with your head high. I know it hurts so if you wanna cry, cry. Laugh at yourself, come up with a comeback.

Don't take life too seriously. If you do, it won't take YOU seriously.

 

[Richie12345]

...don't take life seriously...hmm that's a first, lol

 

[chloesowner]

Everyone goes through it. Turn your back and walk away with your head high. I know it hurts so if you wanna cry, cry. Laugh at yourself, come up with a comeback.

Don't take life too seriously. If you do, it won't take YOU seriously.

hard not to. i have been the subject of ridicule in the past. and i am right now.

 

[bubbatd]

No you haven't !!! You are just taking everything personally, and it may not be directed towards you. When I went to a very small Junior College, the whole college was called into the auditorium as someone's expensive fur coat was stolen . Because I was one of the poorer freshmen and younger as I transfered from Quebec ( 11th yr instaed of 12th yr ) I felt all eyes were on me !!! WHY!!! I hadn't done it... I wasn't a target ....and yet I felt all alone and sad........Maybe we wear our heart on our sleeve.

 

[chloesowner]

ok, maybe not the target, but they do tease me. my "friend" bailey makes these "jokes" about me that are accually insulting. they ment to be insults, not jokes
she says she does them to everybody, but i havent seen that yet.

 

[chloesowner]

I was having a good week, but then it went KA-BOOM like that. Now i cant remember how good it was.

 

[nedim]

ok, maybe not the target, but they do tease me. my "friend" bailey makes these "jokes" about me that are accually insulting. they ment to be insults, not jokes
she says she does them to everybody, but i havent seen that yet.

if it bothers you so much, then why is she still your friend? Dont let her get you down, because it doesnt matter what anyone at all thinks of you, all that matters is that you know youre ok.

 

[chloesowner]

mmm hhhhhmmmm

 

[nedim]

mmm hhhhhmmmm

and that means......?

 

[chloesowner]

i am nodding my head.

 

[bubbatd]

Cloe.. all your threads show you really are sad and need help...please heed your friends here and seek it . Grammy

 

[Fran27]

Chloe, the best thing you can do for yourself is get rid of the 'friendships' that only hurt you. You'll feel much better afterwards.

But yeah, I think it happens to most people at that age, although some have more reasons to be depressed than others. One day you'll get friends that take you as you are and it will be much better, just kids are too immature at this age.

 

[014509Bo]

sometimes my life sucks. i feel unaccepted un wanted stupid... the list goes on. people bug me and tease me and i am sick and da*n tired of it. i hurt inside, sometimes i wanna just break down and cry and cry and cry... people say things about me and do things to me without thinking i feel like hitting myself in the head and asking myself whats wrong with me? what did i do to you? this is why i love chaz, people dont ridiclude me here

I went through the same thing except perhaps a little worse when I was a child. This is called bullying, and harassment. You need to go talk to someone about what you are going through and something has to be done to these children who are bullying you. Charges can be pressed against people who harass. I consider myself to have been part of a minority, when I was a child I was not bright, pretty or popular and I did not have any friends. This singled me out to be picked on and bullied to a point where the bullies became physically violent.
You need to talk to a teacher, the school counselor etc. You do not have to put up with this. Don't feel as though you are being a rat, you are protecting yourself.
This affected me into adulthood. I am very shy, protective of myself, I am always waiting for someone to make fun of me, so I start it before they can. I have a low self esteem which I am still to this day working on building.
Don't put up with this one minute longer. If anyone thinks you are going overboard let me talk to them. I will tell them otherwise!