I will admit, I haven't read all the way through this thread and I don't post here a lot but I have been following your journey for a couple months now. I may have even posted already on this thread a couple days ago. lol.. I am always watching my diet. I have done Weight Watchers twice now. I am on it currently. The thing to remember is that you need to eat a balanced diet. I know that for me personally, I need a protein (meat, egg, PB) with every meal or I am starving. I typically eat one with my lunch, afternoon snack and dinner. Usually not with breakfast. I also learned that watching calories is far more effective than just watching fat grams which may seem simple to most but was something I never realized. Portion control is so important. For me, since I count WW points, I know how many I can have and can calculate before I eat. Basically the higher in fiber something is, the more calories I can eat and it is still the same amount of points. It is a sliding scale type of thing.
If you are eating a bunch of salads, try adding a baked chicken breast to it or even a hard boiled egg without the middle. Or maybe a serving of ham or turkey. That should help it stick to you better.
For instance, my dinner always consists of a meat, a starch that is low in points ( 2 points per serving) and a vegetable cooked in a way that hasn't added a bunch of calories. If I want more, I got back for veggies b/c they are free for me.
And it is OK to have a cheat meal here and there. When you do it, don't go overboard, and don't decide that b/c you did bad today you will continue to do bad today and start over again tomorrow....just start over with the next meal. When I am dieting I always start craving pizza and fried food even though it isn't something I typically eat. I treat myself from time to time...and sometimes I make my own and make it work for my diet...like the other night you were talking about wings which I LOVE...someone suggested you buy chicken tenders and sauce and make you own and by golly I bought some the next day to make my own. I also bought stuff to make my own pizza's but they are filled with veggies and LF meat and minimal cheese...they are way tastier than Domino's.
Anyway, I wish you the best of luck. I know some people say diet soda is bad and I know it isn't good for you but one every once and awhile should be OK if it is within reason and you don't abuse them. There are some great flavored waters and also some great Minute Made juices and other drinks that are very tasty. There are a lot of great low calorie alternatives for food and drink if you just keep watching!