I'm just... I don't... I don't know what to say or how to feel about it. My mom and step dad have been married over 20 years. My step dad and I are close. My mom just called me today to tell me they are getting divorced. I guess I should have seen the clues. My mom recently bought a convertible, has been tanning a lot and is obsessing over losing weight even though she is already skinny. My step dad is military and only home every other weekend now and my mom's job has her traveling a lot so they don't see each other much anymore. Still, maybe I'm just in shock, but I feel so upset over the whole situation and I feel like I'm about to lose my step dad.