Thanks guys. I'm a little better today. I just got off the phone with my mom. She said my step dad still really wants to be a part of my life and that they are going to try to be civil with each other since there will be times they see each other, i.e when/if my sister or brother get married or if any of us have babies etc. We were supposed to go down to GA for Thanksgiving with them. I'm not positive if we are still going to go now though.