Thank you Katt..thank you thank you thank you ..i am sitting here dripping tears of frustration. Maybe i just didn't make clear what i heard..it went like this SLAP SLAP SLAP SLAP SLAP SLAP SLAP SLAP SLAP SLAP SLAP >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>..she didn't stop until her arm got tired.. only a yelp escaped on the second one..ever been hit so hard it took your breath..ever been hurt so bad that you cant even scream..THAT IS WHAT I HEARD..i do not exagerate, or make up tales. With that first slap my heart cramped in my chest. EVer hear something JUST SO WRONG? ANd it is tivialized, i have thought of this all morning..or lessened down, because it is an ugly thing to have to deal with So if it isn't REALLY that bad ,we can just turn our heads and look the other way. Better to do that, then to march in to her house ..yank her into her bedroom.. and have a policeman stand there and do exactly the same thing to her..everytime she hits her child i want a police man to go over there and hit her just as hard as she hit him.
IF it is a swat on the tusshie through a diaper..because a toddler is about to run across the road...with a responding NO ..as a warning of far worse.would such an action be justified.then and only then in MY BOOK..but to humilate, degrade, or even worse grow a ball of hate so big that when they become teenagers they cant stomp it down anymore and so they start to act out..THAT Is where violence comes from. Sorry i am about as wound up as a clock on this. AS shocked from the members here as i am by my mother that says..you better not get your neighbor mad at you>>. that is always her response. THAT is why we have crime...not because enough parents are not spanking or beating their children. arrrrgh i could just stomp and yell.
THis is what i imagine happend..little boy lets dog out by accident..probably cracked open the door and the dog that is as big as he is pushed past him and little boy thouht >NO! because he knows he is going to get hit for letting the dog out again..so he runs out the door to catch the dog and the dog keeps going ..now he is across the street thinking NO ..I GOTTA CATCH THE DOG! BUt neighbor lady comes out and catches the dog..oh Crap thinks little boy so he keeps on running. WHY Else would he run a half block in the opposite direction from home before he finally cam back to me? i called him over and over in a very nice way..HEY SON we need to take your puppy back come one! WE need to get the puppy back. He stopped and came back to me and we walked back to his house. HE seemed quite happy when he was telling me That's MY House.. he trusted me..he knew me, and he knew i wouldn't hurt him. But i did, i took him home and handed him over to what i wrote above. Next time..he wont stop for me or anyone else until he is worn out. THen who will be standing there to take him home to be beat?
I sit here in my living room shocked at everyone.
I will never take him home to mom again..that i promise...i will call and stand there until the authorites arrive and tell them what happened last time i took him home and why i want them to this time.
case in point the girl that shot her mother on the news recently..i said it when she was arrested..there is far more to this story then we are hearing..it is either extreme mental illness or there is extreme abuse. I was not suprised when i heard what her life was like.