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and, as you get older the losing happens more frequently.
What happened to the importance of giving your word or being honest?
I posted in May about leaving my husband. Well, I had access to his email account because it was created by me and on my internet account which I transferred when I moved. It's been quite the eye opener regarding what he has said about me and also what my daughter in law has said. The emails from a tenant he wanted me to agree to rent to, when I refused she sent him emails telling him to keep the vehicle from me (which he did), get an order to keep me off the property, blah blah.
The account activity completely changed the last couple of days and I knew something was up. I called his sister, who I have been very close to and confided in her about the email access, asking if she told him. She said no, but that he 'found out' because he supposedly told her a couple of months ago he thought I might be reading his mail. She repeatedly assured me since May that she was not telling him anything and never ever spoke about emails. Now she tells me there was a conversations about emails. Geeezzzz. She's not being honest with me. Another one bites the dust.
They're falling like flies. I just cannot have anything to do with those I don't trust. It's impossible for me to pretend everything is fine after I find someone is lying to me.
But, the good thing is that I have Molly, who I prefer the company of more and more - she is who she is, I love her.
What happened to the importance of giving your word or being honest?
I posted in May about leaving my husband. Well, I had access to his email account because it was created by me and on my internet account which I transferred when I moved. It's been quite the eye opener regarding what he has said about me and also what my daughter in law has said. The emails from a tenant he wanted me to agree to rent to, when I refused she sent him emails telling him to keep the vehicle from me (which he did), get an order to keep me off the property, blah blah.
The account activity completely changed the last couple of days and I knew something was up. I called his sister, who I have been very close to and confided in her about the email access, asking if she told him. She said no, but that he 'found out' because he supposedly told her a couple of months ago he thought I might be reading his mail. She repeatedly assured me since May that she was not telling him anything and never ever spoke about emails. Now she tells me there was a conversations about emails. Geeezzzz. She's not being honest with me. Another one bites the dust.
They're falling like flies. I just cannot have anything to do with those I don't trust. It's impossible for me to pretend everything is fine after I find someone is lying to me.
But, the good thing is that I have Molly, who I prefer the company of more and more - she is who she is, I love her.