Kicked Out
- Thread starter darkchild16
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Somewhere you can go? is this something she has done before? is it even legal for her to say that or is that "abandonment" is it a game? Did you say Anything else or do you believe she is having a "manic moment?" if you want to pm me i will be up all night..im god awful sorry Breeze..betrayal sucks and is abusive.
Bubbat..how can you say this? What did you do to cause this ???
Do you know people actually said that to me when ex busted my head? No one deserves to be told that..a break..sure...talk...Mom could have taken that approach but she didn't. She wants her to feel hurt and pushed out..dislike and unloved.
Do you know people actually said that to me when ex busted my head? No one deserves to be told that..a break..sure...talk...Mom could have taken that approach but she didn't. She wants her to feel hurt and pushed out..dislike and unloved.
My sister had a friend who got kicked out and went to the police.
The parents just said that the friend ran away and teh police just gave her back to the parents to get kicked out again.
So the moral is that police are of no help if your parents are smart enough (or the police dumb enough).
You could give it a try though, but you may just wind up back in your parents house and getting kicked out again.
Maybe call social services (or whoever the people are who deal with this thing, the people who take your children away and what not).
The parents just said that the friend ran away and teh police just gave her back to the parents to get kicked out again.
So the moral is that police are of no help if your parents are smart enough (or the police dumb enough).
You could give it a try though, but you may just wind up back in your parents house and getting kicked out again.
Maybe call social services (or whoever the people are who deal with this thing, the people who take your children away and what not).
Dark child, I am sorry to hear about what happened. Maybe I can give you a bit of insight on the other side of the tracks. My daughter who is 16 has been having a bunch of problems for a yr now, run away now 10 times, takes off with friends with out telling me (now please for a moment stop and think about how a parent must feel when their child is out and you dont know about it and dont know where they are). Parents yell, that is in our rule book, sometimes we forget our kids are growing up faster that what WE think they should. But along that same line, most kids today dont really care about how their parents feel, and possibly vice versa, but being a parent comes with alot of baggage and that baggage gets to be a bit heavy. Ashley my daughter has been out of a treatment center for almost a month now, and we are still having some problems but I take a step back and remember when I was her age and what it was like to be a teen. It isnt easy being a teen these days. It is confusing, frustrating and just like a jigsaw puzzle you have to find the right peice to fit. Hun take it easy, give your mom some time to cool down and try and talk, but approach the topic with kid gloves so to speak.. Us moms are monsters just overworked...Good luck and let me know how you are doing.
That really bites on your part...and if you are 18, then I would just cut my losses for now, try and find a decent job and a place to live and muck out whatever living you can. See if you can qualify for some federal student aid and go get some higher schooling so you can get a better job. One can hope, that with time and distance, your mom will cool down and come to accept you for who you are, but seeing as how this is not a first time thing, I think you need to take some initative and make it on your own.
All this is only if you can't or won't move in with your dad or other, kinder, relatives or friends. Well, I still advocate for some sort of degree schooling, because that just works out better in the long run.
All this is only if you can't or won't move in with your dad or other, kinder, relatives or friends. Well, I still advocate for some sort of degree schooling, because that just works out better in the long run.
it wasnt about mandy and im moving to my dads on saturday and i will be there until im 18 and make further descions then. i will still get on here all the time still.and i was at steves obviously and thanks smkie and ga yall are great and so is everyone else. and mydogsloveme it isnt that she really cares becase my mom cant stand me and its just because she likes to control every move i make to an extreme.