Jersey had her puppies

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I love that this community doesn't ignore grossly unethical practices. Just because its the same member bringing up the same topics again and again doesn't mean others need to stop questioning and disputing them.
People can't expect Chazzers with such a passion for dogs to sit down and shut up when they see something that is so obvisouly wrong or needs improvement.

Chaz is a dog information bank with passionate and knowledgeble members, expect questions. It not an "ooo - ahh" forum.

I read through this thread and it seems a few people that usually stay out of these sort of things have even jumped in, myself included. I don't understand how someone can be a member of Chazhound and not understand that subpar breeding = more dead dogs.

I think what bothers me the most is that I don't think anything will change. I just hope these puppies, aswell as past and future litters are well homed so they don't end up on the wrong side of the euth needle.

I am also a little disturbed that some longer term members are prepared to drop this.
 
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I am also a little disturbed that some longer term members are prepared to drop this.
Just because someone has been here a long time doesnt mean they have to follow the pack... I fail to see how not joining the herd and trying ones hardest to convince this lady to leave has anything to do with post count.
 

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I don't think she needs to leave, I think she needs to properly educate herself and make her breeding practices more ethical, then I will gush over puppies without having to wonder how many dogs may die because of people that refuse to learn.

It also has nothing to do with post count, but after a few years on Chaz I'm amazed anyone can be okay ignoring blatant BYBing being splashed on this forum, even once.
 

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Just because someone has been here a long time doesnt mean they have to follow the pack... I fail to see how not joining the herd and trying ones hardest to convince this lady to leave has anything to do with post count.
No one has tried to convince her to leave. She was the first to say that she requested her account be deleted because people were asking questions. It was then that folks told her that if she doesn't like it here, she can simply leave.
 

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Perhaps some people ARE ok with BYBs. Hey it takes all kinds. But don't expect us who are horrified by them to stand idly by whilst people congratulate them for brining more puppies into the world.

And I hope its not people following the pack.. I have seen many people in this thread that usually disagree with each other standing together. To me thats not 'going with the pack' Its people uniting in what they believe in, not because its what 'the cool kids are doing' but because they passionately believe that unethical and harmful breeding practices are WRONG.

And many people have said they hoped she'd stay. Its interesting how people keep trying to say we want her to leave. You miss the point.. we want her to breed better.

The OP is the one who stated she wanted to leave. Take it up with her..
 
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No one has tried to convince her to leave. She was the first to say that she requested her account be deleted because people were asking questions. It was then that folks told her that if she doesn't like it here, she can simply leave.
there were many comments prior to that of "just ignore her and she will leave" or " maybe if we dont talk to her she wont stay" etc.

and (not directed at you...)

but this topic is getting totally ridiculous just because people didnt join in this elementary witch hunt does not mean they support BYB's. For all everyone's amazement and disappointment on this topic... I find it shocking that people who at one time appeared to be mature members of this community are now gossiping in chat like school kids, just remember everything that is said in chat DOES NOT stay private.
 

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Who is gossiping? Why is standing up against BYB a witch hunt?

I really think you are reading things into posts that aren't there. Most people are saying its not a witch hunt.

If it was a witch hunt it would be unwarrented (cause by definition there are not witches in witch hunts) Are you saying the OP should be allowed to post with no questions? Just let her use chaz to promote her pups and we should all stand by as she is a great breeder who should breed dogs?


Umm nothing that is said in chat stays private... not sure why it would. Heck often things said in PMs dont' stay private :p Anyone can go in chat.. no one thinks its private.

ANd most things in chat that are said about threads are then said in threads. (like this comment here)
 

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there were many comments prior to that of "just ignore her and she will leave" or " maybe if we dont talk to her she wont stay" etc.

and (not directed at you...)

but this topic is getting totally ridiculous just because people didnt join in this elementary witch hunt does not mean they support BYB's. For all everyone's amazement and disappointment on this topic... I find it shocking that people who at one time appeared to be mature members of this community are now gossiping in chat like school kids, just remember everything that is said in chat DOES NOT stay private.
Oh I know full well that we're spied on in chat. I don't say anything on chat that I wouldn't say directly to the person, and have. It's not "gossip", it's discussion, and frankly we should be allowed to discuss these matters in chat, especially when we can't discuss it elsewhere. I have no doubt people have "gossiped" about me in chat at some point when I'm not there. *shrug*
 
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but this topic is getting totally ridiculous just because people didnt join in this elementary witch hunt does not mean they support BYB's. For all everyone's amazement and disappointment on this topic... I find it shocking that people who at one time appeared to be mature members of this community are now gossiping in chat like school kids, just remember everything that is said in chat DOES NOT stay private.
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not wanting to repeatedly attack this woman now means people are supporting byb? Wow, just wow. Sounds like my point was missed entirely.

Ya allie.. You should see what we say about YOU snigger snigger..
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great example...kidding or not that says more than you know.

I have seen people talk crap and then when that person arives they are nice to them. I have seen people leave chat and then the crap starts again. Not speaking about anyone specifically. But I have observed very childish things due to the cliques here and I find it very ugly at times
 
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Oh I know full well that we're spied on in chat. I don't say anything on chat that I wouldn't say directly to the person, and have. It's not "gossip", it's discussion, and frankly we should be allowed to discuss these matters in chat, especially when we can't discuss it elsewhere. I have no doubt people have "gossiped" about me in chat at some point when I'm not there. *shrug*

you sure you want to say that?
 

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Ladies, this thread is now just becoming a back and forth between you.........nothing productive in that.

It does nobody any use to read a few pages of this stuff, LOL, I know because I just did :eek: LOL
 

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:p Acoop.. I was just sniggering at Allie (I just can't find an appropriate lol cat for sniggering.. I love that word.. snigger)
 

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but this topic is getting totally ridiculous just because people didnt join in this elementary witch hunt does not mean they support BYB's. For all everyone's amazement and disappointment on this topic... I find it shocking that people who at one time appeared to be mature members of this community are now gossiping in chat like school kids, just remember everything that is said in chat DOES NOT stay private.
This is what you would consider a witch hunt? I mean this seriously, not trying to belittle you.

But I have observed very childish things due to the cliques here and I find it very ugly at times
Actually I was thinking that Chaz was becoming very un-clique-ish lately. Just because someone agrees with a poster, or the majority have the same opinion doesn't mean it's a clique.
 

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I know.. I was thinking this was an extremely uncliquey thread.. (as in many people who aren't fans of each other agreeing)

But you know.. all we do in chat is snigger.. so here I go..

(hey lizmo.. snigger snigger .. ok now I am cracking myself up..)
 
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Actually I was thinking that Chaz was becoming very un-clique-ish lately. Just because someone agrees with a poster, or the majority have the same opinion doesn't mean it's a clique.
it goes in cycles...and since you are one of the ones "in" the "group" you of course would notice it less...I agree, it comes and goes...but it is prevalent on this forum very much so compared to other places.

Also i think we ALL have the same opinion on this poster...what seems to be differing is how to HANDLE that poster. I agree with you all about her dogs...I just don't think ramming it down her throat or harping on her is the answer. Would you do this to a person IRL? :) :)
 
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I didnt mean discussion of threads = gossiping.

I meant the PERSONAL attacks that people are saying about people not in chat... just remember there is probably someone in chat with you who is copying/pasting/ and PM'ing/emailing.

I guarantee that these things ARE NOT being said in the threads... if your fine with that, great but don't then try and be two faced to that same person. :)
 

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Also i think we ALL have the same opinion on this poster...what seems to be differing is how to HANDLE that poster. I agree with you all about her dogs...I just don't think ramming it down her throat or harping on her is the answer. Would you do this to a person IRL? :) :)
No, but I definitely do my best to ignore any thing 'puppy' related from the BYBs I know. :) I normally don't say aww cute pups or the like when they talk about a litter they just had.

Out of curiosity, how would you handle it? You know they (general they) are a BYB, would you respond to them talked about the pups/what they are doing?
 

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