I'm sorry about this Nancy. I have to say though that I'm not surprised that she went back to him. I was in a relationship with a similar boy when I was around your daughter's age. It's very hard to get away from that type of person, especially the first try, and especially when you are that young. I understand the need to protect your daughter, but be careful about driving her into his arms. I know that when others came down really hard on my past relationship, it put me on the defensive and we only got closer. But believe me, it's only a matter of time before this relationship will dissolve. I think the third time I broke up with him, I got a restraining order on him and that was pretty much that. I'm sorry about this though, I know how hard this must be for you. It's so hard to watch people you love make mistakes.