If the hot border collie guy here ever breaks up with his gf, you three are drawing straws and I'll introduce the winner I met hubby in college -- we were both part of a volunteer group though that's not how things actually started...I wouldn't have been able to pick him out of crowd. But we had a mutual friend as a result of that and ended up meeting that way. I was very, very happy as a single but he asked me out and lured me in with tickets to a musical I wanted to see But there have been guys I've met post-college that I would date if I weren't happily married lol. Mostly through getting involved in hobbies...my aquariums, dog sports, hiking, etc., mutual connections through those things. My only real advice is be the person you want to be and embrace the life you want to live and you're likely to meet someone special or at least make some amazing new friends. Anyone you meet while forcing yourself to do stuff you don't like just to meet someone is far less likely to be a good match, IMO.