Mine are allowed on couches and everyone has a bed to snuggle in, It was funny when all the family was away but me and I had all 5 in MY bed:yikes: Usually it shakes out like this: Mindy, Di and Molly(Sometimes with Jen) with us, Max with my son Jonah and Foster with Jenny.
They are all ok with being crated if need be, and none have SA or howl when left alone because trust me if they did my Father In Law would tell me!!!
I have been thinking for a while about what to get for a couch as mine is pretty well toast, and I need a dog friendly one. I was worried Leather would not hold up, but a few here have said theirs have done well?
I could not imagine having allowed them to be on the furniture and then making them stay off because I got new furniture, I understand it is pricey but I would feel like I was punishing them when they did nothing wrong. I personally would rather have old, or buy a used set than make them stay down after they have had years of being allowed on.