Daycare in high schools
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Firstly I just want to say I dont think the daycare should be free. They each, mother and father, should pay $50 a week.
Everyone wants to be loved and sadly enough alot of teen girls think being loved is having sex with your boyfriend. It might be the way they were raised it might be what they are getting from media. Just because they werent brought up in such savvy homes like yall and did everything right in their life means they shouldnt be HELPED. Im not saying they should be handed everything...just helped along
Thats all
Everyone wants to be loved and sadly enough alot of teen girls think being loved is having sex with your boyfriend. It might be the way they were raised it might be what they are getting from media. Just because they werent brought up in such savvy homes like yall and did everything right in their life means they shouldnt be HELPED. Im not saying they should be handed everything...just helped along
Thats all
Yes..I know. I was one of them. But I was in the relationship for 2.5 years and hess still the only one I have had sex with..
So its not all skanks that gets prego
So its not all skanks that gets prego
Ok I've been thinking some more. Woohoo they get free daycare in high school, so now they can FURTHER their education right? HOW THE HECK ARE THEY GOING TO PAY FOR COLLEGE & DAYCARE? I'm a college student, no kids, and its EXPENSIVE. I had a scholarship my first year, 2nd year had to take out a loan. I mean I don't know how the hell I could manage with a lil'tyke being in school now. Then what if they move out of their house? So they have to pay for a kid, a home, and school? This free daycare thing is NOT preparing them for the real world. If it helps THEM to go to school, which public school is FREE, then what about those in college? I mean they're in school too. and they're PAYING for school. If anything college students are the ones that need help not teens living with their parents getting a FREE education.
My friend is having baby AFTER high school and she IS going to further her education, but if she had taken on college now with the baby soon to be born it would be too much. She's not under her moms roof anymore and all the expenses fall on her and the father, IMO like it should. She choosed to have a child, planned or not. In high school or after high school, having a baby is having a baby, YOUR RESPONSIBILITY, not anyone elses.
Oh and then what about those getting pregnant in middle school? Shouldn't they get help too?
If you have sex whether with one person or more, if you're in middle school, high school, or out of school I don't think no one doesn't know the outcome MIGHT BE PREGNANCY. Think its too much to have a baby and be in high school? Don't have sex or atleast have safe sex or something.
My friend is having baby AFTER high school and she IS going to further her education, but if she had taken on college now with the baby soon to be born it would be too much. She's not under her moms roof anymore and all the expenses fall on her and the father, IMO like it should. She choosed to have a child, planned or not. In high school or after high school, having a baby is having a baby, YOUR RESPONSIBILITY, not anyone elses.
Oh and then what about those getting pregnant in middle school? Shouldn't they get help too?
If you have sex whether with one person or more, if you're in middle school, high school, or out of school I don't think no one doesn't know the outcome MIGHT BE PREGNANCY. Think its too much to have a baby and be in high school? Don't have sex or atleast have safe sex or something.
Wow thanks
I'm surrounded living in an low-income area so I know how they're are going to be teens here that will take abuse of this. And I don't, once I get a job, have to pay for their own mistakes. Trust me, sure there's going to be people that need it, but more people that are going to be be more than happy to use this for their own advantage. If you can't let alone pay for daycare, how can you pay for every other thing your child needs? Babies ain't cheap, can't afford them?
Simple don't have them. I know daycare is expensive although, but there's people that mange without it. They have family members that can be able to take care of the baby or they're able to stay at home with their child. If you don't even have THAT, then why would you bring a child into a lifestyle that is unfair to the child?
I hope when I have a child I'm not living here and am stable enough to afford for it. Yes sometimes the unexpected happens, but ONLY I, was to fault for it, so ONLY I should have to suffer the consequences, because of it.
Its nice when people OFFER to help, but to PLED for help, when you were the one who got yourself into a problem, and then its FORCED to help you, to me is unfair. No I'm not going to be stuck up and not help anyone, but only to those who really need it, like being born in poverty, have some sort of disease, ect. Something NOT THEIR FAULT. But something that COULD OF BEEN PREVENTED? Umm not on top of my list.
ETA: PREVENTED, does not mean rape cases. This is not their fault. But when you choose to have sex, baby-making could of been prevented. Your choice, your responsibilty, because of it.
Should be pay for lung cancer patients medical bills, even though they choosed to smoke? I think they too knew the consequences of their actions. Its unforunate, but you choose to do something, and know of the consequences there's no one to blame but yourself.
Not teen pregnancy in movies, not beer commericals, ect...
I'm surrounded living in an low-income area so I know how they're are going to be teens here that will take abuse of this. And I don't, once I get a job, have to pay for their own mistakes. Trust me, sure there's going to be people that need it, but more people that are going to be be more than happy to use this for their own advantage. If you can't let alone pay for daycare, how can you pay for every other thing your child needs? Babies ain't cheap, can't afford them?
Simple don't have them. I know daycare is expensive although, but there's people that mange without it. They have family members that can be able to take care of the baby or they're able to stay at home with their child. If you don't even have THAT, then why would you bring a child into a lifestyle that is unfair to the child?
I hope when I have a child I'm not living here and am stable enough to afford for it. Yes sometimes the unexpected happens, but ONLY I, was to fault for it, so ONLY I should have to suffer the consequences, because of it.
Its nice when people OFFER to help, but to PLED for help, when you were the one who got yourself into a problem, and then its FORCED to help you, to me is unfair. No I'm not going to be stuck up and not help anyone, but only to those who really need it, like being born in poverty, have some sort of disease, ect. Something NOT THEIR FAULT. But something that COULD OF BEEN PREVENTED? Umm not on top of my list.
ETA: PREVENTED, does not mean rape cases. This is not their fault. But when you choose to have sex, baby-making could of been prevented. Your choice, your responsibilty, because of it.
Should be pay for lung cancer patients medical bills, even though they choosed to smoke? I think they too knew the consequences of their actions. Its unforunate, but you choose to do something, and know of the consequences there's no one to blame but yourself.
Not teen pregnancy in movies, not beer commericals, ect...
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Question: Do you think some of these teens [some not all] will be willing to help you out if ever need assistance?
I find it funny how some [not all] people who get food stamps, ect seem to have better, nicer things like 22' inch chrome rims on their chevies then people in middle class who drive a toyota, yet you don't see those people asking for help.
I find it funny how some [not all] people who get food stamps, ect seem to have better, nicer things like 22' inch chrome rims on their chevies then people in middle class who drive a toyota, yet you don't see those people asking for help.
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Wow, for once I am actually disagreeing with juicy. lol.
I respect everyones opinions, I can see where others are coming from. Kids in high school do need help to finish and get on their own two feet. Day care is super expensive to the point of being impossible for a high schooler to afford. They do need help, like it or not. I am not against them doing at least a little work for the daycare either. Whatever WORKS. Something needs to be done. Thats all I'm saying.
And are you suggesting to separate the rape victims and BC failures from the rest? Hmmm, I wonder how that one would be pulled off, lol.
I respect everyones opinions, I can see where others are coming from. Kids in high school do need help to finish and get on their own two feet. Day care is super expensive to the point of being impossible for a high schooler to afford. They do need help, like it or not. I am not against them doing at least a little work for the daycare either. Whatever WORKS. Something needs to be done. Thats all I'm saying.
And are you suggesting to separate the rape victims and BC failures from the rest? Hmmm, I wonder how that one would be pulled off, lol.
I'm not against it being discounted I suppose, but free? I dunno to me it sounds like even more reason why people would want to start having babies at an even more younger age. I mean isn't there an issue not sure if its true or not about those pacts? Why give them more power to of having a baby even sooner. I mean come on its free daycare, you don't get that out of high school thats for sure.
I just said that so no one goes and says well sometimes it could be from rape so they couldn't of prevented it.
I just said that so no one goes and says well sometimes it could be from rape so they couldn't of prevented it.
Watching it now.
Wow I hope that one teen who didn't even want to wear the belly doesn't have a baby anytime soon
I remember taking parenting skills class. I did not want to return my baby lol. She didn't cry as much as I thought she would, only woke me up once. People said I got lucky, but I wanted her to cry more then she did.I called my friend 2am in the morning to complain on how she hadn't cried all night. I kept myself up hoping she would lol. I remember the first time she cooed, I was so happy.
I LOVE clothes shopping for babies. The baby already came with clothes but no way I was going to have her in those rags. I was upset the next day when it was the other classes turn with the dolls.
This is Leah...
Wow I hope that one teen who didn't even want to wear the belly doesn't have a baby anytime soon
I remember taking parenting skills class. I did not want to return my baby lol. She didn't cry as much as I thought she would, only woke me up once. People said I got lucky, but I wanted her to cry more then she did.I called my friend 2am in the morning to complain on how she hadn't cried all night. I kept myself up hoping she would lol. I remember the first time she cooed, I was so happy.
I LOVE clothes shopping for babies. The baby already came with clothes but no way I was going to have her in those rags. I was upset the next day when it was the other classes turn with the dolls.
This is Leah...
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All I have to say is that a doll is WAY different than the real deal. There is no comparison. 8 wet diapers a day, poopy blow outs, burping up soured milk, nursing every hour, crying when you finally get to sleep. All that when you've got 15 or so stitches between your legs.
It isn't easy, but I'd do it again in a heart beat.
It isn't easy, but I'd do it again in a heart beat.