Daycare in high schools

Are you for daycares in highschool?

  • Yes

    Votes: 25 55.6%
  • No

    Votes: 20 44.4%

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SarahFair

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This morning while driving Kyle to work I was listening to a morning talk show. They were on the subject of the 17 girls, all aged 15 and under ( I think ), that made a pact to be prego before they graduated.

Well in this school they have a daycare for mothers who have had children and are still in school. The principal says that they only have about 4 or 5 kids in the daycare now.

Some people are saying that a daycare in highschool encouraged the kids to have babies and some say that is not so.

What do yall think about having daycares in highschool?
 

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I don't think it makes them want to have babies.

Back home we had a school that added a day care because so many of their students were knocked up... oddly enough they were the Clarkroad Trojans lol. it just helped to keep them in school so they could still get an education.
 

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i can see both sides of it...

... you want the girls to stay in school, particularly nowadays where even a bachelor's degree isn't getting to mean much. And if they can't leave the kid, they can't go to school. Most of them probably can't afford daycare otherwise.

On the other hand, making things ridiculously easy for people helps them to be poor decision makers, and by putting a day care at the HS, it does have an air of "approval" for kids to be having kids.
 

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There is a school here that is specially for teen mums.

It looks after their kids while they learn. They learn all the stuff on the normal curriculum and extras like health and childcare etc etc.

There is a stupid high teen preggo rate here, and if you look at what happens to most teen mums in the future, you can see they need that support and advice AND they NEED to finish their education more than anything.

It isn't encouraging kids to have babies any more than needle exchanges encourage people to inject drugs.

Unfortunately, it is social factors that lead to these kids getting pregnant more than a baby watching facitilty in school.
 

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but giving them more of an "It's okay" sorta thing...
I think that if they are handing out birth control in MIDDLE SCHOOL that is an "It's okay" sorta thing...

I think its a great thing to have daycare! I was a highschool mother and I had to drop out because I had Beau. I couldnt go back because I would have to put him in daycare and in order to do that I would have had to work about 30 hours a week!

I thankfully got my GED but think about all the moms who dont.

and I think its completely DUMB that the girl is asked the leave school (in some schools) and go to a special school for girls that are pregnant when the boy who knocked her up can continue going to regular school. :mad:

I just wish my school had this...
 

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Kinda like condoning it... so I'm not really for it.

I know there are schools that exist for teen moms that provide assistance while they get their education, but I'm not really for public schools offering day cares.
 

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I voted yes, but am torn...

Of course it helps the mother stay in school, which is important if she ever wants to support the kid on her own. But who pays for the daycare? Would that be just another added burden to the school tax payer? I mean our property taxes are already high enough.

It is a good idea, I suppose. But it just adds another thing public schools have to do, that is unrelated to actually educating the kids...
 

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I would rather a girl stay in school and get her high school diploma then worry about if it is encouraging or permissive or whatever. Too many have to drop out and then there they are.
 

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But who pays for the daycare?
Well by getting the mothers through highschool they could be one less to be on all the government aid...

I mean all the money that goes into football and soccer and such..Its ridiculous! They can spare a classroom and some $$ for a daycare watcher. Or they could have some aid ( like the students that work with special ed kids ) come and help.
 

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well, if you want it to come down to money... I'm going to have to point out the other side.... (and keep in mind I am talking about kids who had sex on purpose, not rape or incest or anything of the like)

... the likelihood that teen mothers will be living on government aid, regardless of finishing high school, is still pretty high. Who watches the kid when it's time to get a job? Who watches the kid if they manage to get to college? Who pays for the baby and for college? I would rather award scholarships to kids who played by the rules, resisted temptations and focused on the future.

... in my town, my old high school is the oldest one in the district and extremely overcrowded. If they suggested allotting a single classroom for a baby daycare for kids who can't keep their legs together, I'd have to storm city hall. I'm not squashing even more kids together and degrading their education further to make room for babies - which do not have a place in a public high school.

... I'm extremely against hiring someone to come look after these kids' kids. It's not like special ed - those children can't help being the way they are. Pregnancy is 100% preventable. Especially considering all the friggen sex ed they made us take - starting in FIFTH grade!! I feel, as a taxpayer, I paid for programs that were supposed to deter kids from having sex. I don't feel I am obligated to pay for those who decide to ignore it.

I think a better idea would be to have some kind of discount daycare ELSEWHERE... so the teens still have the "nothing in life is free" concept, the knowledge that every action has a consequence, but something where they don't have to work 30 hours a week to pay for it! (Personally, I'm all for $50 per kid per week). Now that, I might be willing to pay a bit for as a taxpayer. I'm not a fan of handouts.

Sheesh this is slowly tipping me off the balance and into the "hell no" side, the more that I think about it.
 

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at ours the daycare is for students and teachers alike and is used as a classroom for the students. They teach early childhood ed and special ed classes at my old school. And upon graduation they go on with certificates in the field to get jobs in daycare and other facilities. Alot of the mothers there took advantage of it as well.
 

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I really don't think public high schools is where a daycare like that belongs.... Maybe somewhere else the girls could take their kids?

I'm really not sure.
 
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at ours the daycare is for students and teachers alike and is used as a classroom for the students. They teach early childhood ed and special ed classes at my old school. And upon graduation they go on with certificates in the field to get jobs in daycare and other facilities. Alot of the mothers there took advantage of it as well.
That is exactly the way it should be done. Someone had their head on straight on that one.

Gotta think, too, that seeing their classmates have to juggle schoolwork and baby stuff might very well make a few girls more careful.
 

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I like Breeze's school's set up. That sounds about as ideal as you can get for the situation.
 

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I voted yes , but I'm torn . Is this giving girls the message that they can go get pregnant and life can be the same ??? Those Gloucester girls sure weren't looking ahead ! BTW... I think they were 15 to 17 yrs old .
 

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#19
Girls are getting pregnant whether they have day cares at school or not. I think it's a great idea, that way 16 year olds don't ruin there lives completely by not completing high school..
 

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How is it giving them the message it's ok?

They HAVEN'T had day care for centuries and still teens still managed to get pregnant all on their own.

It's going to happen.

May aswell try and give the girls who have kids in their teens a fair go at competeing in the job world.
 

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