Oh, Laur. I have not written anything since you first posted in your other thread because I don't know what to say. I started writing a response several times and choked up.
I am so, so sorry for your and your family's loss. Words can't even express it. My heart goes out to you.
If you wouldn't mind, please let me know the fund your family want the donations of friends and family send to. We can't give much, but I would like to something in memory of your mother. She is beautiful and sounds like an amazing woman, wife, and mother.