Hmmm...well, I don't know. I am torn in this. Yes, I think in these days committing suicide to some seems like the easy way out.
But you don't know what is going on in someone's mind who is depressed.
I probably shouldn't talk about it...and it's kind of hard...but over the past 10 years, my grandfather changed. He never was the funny, charismatic man he was when I was a kid. He became concerned with everything, obsessed with certain things...could not sleep anymore, lost weight...wouldn't eat.
It all peaked in my grandfather trying to take his life. My poor grandmother found him in time...he spend a long time in a mental institution, went through a long therapy...and now I see the man I knew again.
He was depressed...it was some sort of a post traumatic stress disorder from WWII. He suppressed it all his life.
I would not say he didn't care about my grandmother...my parents or me. He was so desperate, he did not see a way out of it. "Normal functioning" people can't understand what's going on in a mind like that.
And the guy in this article...well, you can only know what you read. And to give the story the hang up of a teen killing himself because he thinks his penis is too small will give the author more clicks than "another depressed teen commits suicide".
To me, he seemed depressed...he told people he felt low and worthless. If that would have been my kid, I would have brought him to therapy. Not see a doctor and let him take multivitamins. When people are depressed, some get obsessed with money...others can't leave their home....with him it was his penis...his problem goes deeper than that and the ONLY pathetic thing in this story is that he wasn't helped.
I do agree to some sort...it is in some way a selfish act. And I was mad, screaming mad at my grandpa for doing this until looking deeper into it and trying to understand. Now, I do not feel sympathy for people who want to get in the news. I am angry at people that try to take other life's with them. Back in Germany, some guy jumped from a warehouse in the inner city...He killed a pregnant woman. THAT is selfish.